I've posted a simular questions to the ladies but most are saying its the guys responsibility no matter how "it" happened, even if it was deliberate. Whats is your take on that behaviour?
2006-10-22 10:16:53 · 9 answers · asked by hiplaque 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are aware of how babies are conceived right? If you are not ready for parenthood, then you should take every precaution to prevent it. Guys will also try to trap women the same way, you just have to keep your guard up at all times.
2006-10-22 10:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by gateach 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tricked Into Fatherhood
2017-01-14 07:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking from a women's point of view, this does not lie solely on the man. this is the responsibility of both the male and the female. but might i add, that even if this girl told you she was on the pill, or some other form of birth control, yes it was also your responsibility to use protection. because not everything is 100%, so i don't really think that you were tricked into anything, maybe misled, but you also misled yourself.
2006-10-22 10:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm a girl, but I know guys do get tricked into fatherhood & it is completely wrong. I know of girls who do this (I of course, am not one of them). But one of my friends was dating this guy for a few yrs so they were having unprotected sex, she led him to believe that she was on the pill & took it regularly. Wrong! She lied to get pregnant cuz she wanted a baby, she wanted to change him, & she thought it would make their relationship better. Even though she knew that he had already had 2 kids & told her he didn't want anymore. So remember guys, girls can be tricky. Just wear a condom to protect yourself from unwanted fatherhood & to protect yourself for diseases. Aren't any of you worried about that?! It does take 2 to make a baby, just cover your butt by doing your half & protecting yourself.
2006-10-22 10:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by tanner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never known anyone who got pregnant because they DIDN'T have sex with someone. It takes two to tango, so to speak: if you don't want to be a father, don't hop into the hay with anyone. It is that simple.
As far as responsibility goes, YOU are responsible for yourself and your actions, so before you try adult things, you'd better be prepared for adult consequences.
2006-10-22 10:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as tricked in becomming a father if you use protection you would not be asking this dumb question you should have done your part even if she didnt. be a real man take charge handle your responsible next time use precaution
2006-10-22 10:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are responsible for your own actions. no matter what kind of line a girl gives you on all of those "well i heard you can't get pregnant if you...." you know how not to get a girl pregnant so stick with your own form of birth control. you know that there's only one way to be 100% sure and that's just to not do it. other than that wrap it up.
2006-10-22 10:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! I know, that's a pretty damn amazing trick how women FORCE you to ejaculate into them!!
Like, you refusing to put a bag on it is like women's biggest trickery all around....
Men have more control of the situation, don't cha think?
Or are you just referring to the women who refuse to undergo a humiliating and painful abortion because they, not you,
have to live with the memory of killing her own child because you couldn't pull out in time?
Fking @S$hole...........
2006-10-22 10:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me.
2006-10-22 10:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by buck28546 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋