i am 16 years old i like this girl in my english class. my friend walked up to me and told me she liked me and her friend walked up to me b4 my last class and told me that she was talkin about me. that made me guess that she liked me. i talk to her once in a while but wen i asked her if she liked me she said NO !!! but the problem is that now she looks at me with a smile on her face. like for example i was talking 2 my friend b4 class and i was standing by the door and she was looking right at me smiling. like one time i gave her a note and told her 2 stop calling me chi chi, because i dont like it. anyways i saw her walking in the hallway and instead of saying HI chi chi she called me by my first name and wen she said it she had a smile on her face. then the other day she asked me if i can lend her a pencil. then after class she was about to give it back but she was about to call me chi chi then she smiled and called me by my 1st name. i dont know what is happening
PLEASE HELP ME
2006-10-22 10:14:55 · 18 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah , i think she really loves you dude! .... but some girls want to make themselves far & hard
2006-10-22 10:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well EJ - as a mom to a 16 yr old boy (yes - the last person you want to hear from) I would answer don't worry about it either way. At this time in your life - you have soooo much more to worry about. How about worrying about finishing school - picking a major - picking a college - financial aid for college, etc. Girls at this time in your life will end up being more of a nuisance than a help. And - if you have no intention of one day marrying this girl - then remember this, you are messing around with someone else's wife. If that doesn't seem to matter to you - then think about your future wife. Do you really want some other boy pawing all over her? Then respect this girl and all others. Just be friends and have fun in groups. You have the rest of your life after you are out of school and have a career to worry about women. And believe me (cuz I am one) WE GIVE YOU PLENTY TO WORRY ABOUT. :-) Hope that helps! Have a great year in school! OH - and I would have answered the same exact way if you were a girl.....
2006-10-22 10:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by Christian Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you- but doesnt know what to do. Girls have the same dating problems.
I would give her a note saying " If your not too cool, chi chi wants to ask you out to a movie " ( or somewhere you go on dates) Make it funny and cute- this will give her an open door to accept a date.
2006-10-22 10:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like this girl is getting her kicks at your expense.
A Chinese proverbs says that a woman's heart is like a pin at the bottom of the ocean. It is hard to say what she is up to as girls can be quite a mystery even one of the worlds famous lover Casanova had woman problems as well.
let things play it self out and if after some time you are not getting no were just call it a day and move on. May be later on when she is a bit older she may be a different person base on choices she makes when you meet her again.
2006-10-22 10:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she likes you, but is playing games. She sounds like a head case you know a real wack job. Try to stay out of her way or show interest in someone else and maybe she will act like she has some sense.
2006-10-22 10:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not much older than you,but if I have learned one thing about girls it is that you can never be 100% sure of what they are thinking.But if I had to guess I'd say she is digs you.She said "No" just to see how you would react and will that drive you of.If a girl does not like you she will tell you with her behavior,not with words.
2006-10-22 10:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by OverLord_Blade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she likes you, but like somebody else said, she may fear rejection. Also, it's possible that she knows her family wouldn't approve of you for some reason, and so, even though she likes you a lot, told you she doesn't because she knows she'll catch heck from her family. Sad, but it happens.
2006-10-22 10:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is a bazar situation. if she acually said no when u asked her out, and ur not exagerrated on her looking at you and flurting with you then its bazar. usually when u ask some1 out and they say "no", they wont talk to you. I think you have to get to the bottom of it if it continues, and sit down with her and find out whats the deal.
2006-10-22 10:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m not sure if she likes u or not................
But I think she ..... likes u.
Ya she does! Usually a girl keeps away frm a boy who asks her if she likes him or not. But in ur case.................
She likes u.
If u like her.......... the best way to propose to her to be ...... either by (if u have courage) taking her to a lonely pleace and talking to her only looking into her eyes or .......... just to propose her in a normal way.
She's on u man.........
Best of LUCK!
2006-10-22 10:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she does. I'm a girl and sometimes girls like to wait until the boy does something so obvious to show that her that they like her to show their feelings.
2006-10-22 10:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes you but isn't ready for a relationship. Just give her some time.
2006-10-22 10:17:18 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋