ok so me and my boyfriend have been toghter for about 4 months...and he is 16 and his mom dosent really like him all that much...she dosent really want him to have a grilfriend....she dosent let him do anything with me at all...and now he as at the point where he just dosnt care about anythig....what can i do to help him andto get him to understand that everthing is goig to be ok???? And do you really think that at the age of 16 his mom can tell him that he cant have a G/F?????
2006-10-22 10:04:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
legally she can tell him that he can't, but she can't really stop him. Until he is 18 and can get out of there things may be rough.
Just tell him how much you care and make sure that you are there for him anytime he needs you. Just be a good friend.
Good Luck!
2006-10-22 10:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by blondyblonde08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mom can ABSOLUTELY tell him at the age of 16 what he can and can't do. He's living in her house!! As much as you probably want to think otherwise, you're still a kid at the age of 16.
2006-10-22 10:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a "Momma's Boy"...but you can probably blame his Mom for THAT! As long as he's a minor, his mom can dictate whatever she wants...assuming he doesn't run away. Look at it this way...you're in a triangle with this guy.
It isn 't HIM you need to get to a level of understanding...it's his mom.
2006-10-22 10:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change his mind all you can do is sit back and hope for the best. She shouldn't be telling him to not date at 16 that is weird.
2006-10-22 10:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. does she give him food? does she give him a roof over his head? yeah i think she can tell him that he cant have a girlfriend. have you ever considered that its best for HIM not to have a girlfriend. maybe his mom wants him to focus more on school. youre a typical teenage girl. ONLY thinking about what you think is best for yourself and worrying about if youll get layed or not. try growing up.
2006-10-22 10:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that she doesnt like him, she doesnt want him getting distracted by a girlfriend. school, grades, scholarships, etc are more important than you are at this time in his life. and she wants to make sure he stays focused.
2006-10-22 10:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by tma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, that is what WE parents do. We guide our children in the right direction.
She obviously doesn't think that he is ready so it isn't worth your battle.
2006-10-22 10:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY - IT'S HIS MOM OK? IF HE LIVES OFF HER MONEY, SHE'S THE BOSS. STAY OUT OF IT LITTLE GIRL.
2006-10-22 10:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋