i have the boy of my dreams and i love him but i still love my X he was nice to he even was my best friend then we went out broke up and i met my new man i don't know what's wrong with me i love the both of them what should i do ?
2006-10-22 09:57:17 · 13 answers · asked by vicky v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You jumped into a relationship before you got over the last one.
You have a dilemma here.
Has your ex- moved on?? If he is an ex, there is usually a good reason why you are not together.
Sometimes the idea of being with someone from the past is just a fantasy in your mind....
If you can't choose then your new bf needs to know how you feel. If he is smart he will let you go, but remember he might not want you back....
2006-10-22 10:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath ..you seem so confused girl ..
If you are still loving ur X..though u r with "the man of ur dreams " leav eur current boyfriend u r not in love with him and will never be ..as for ur X it depends on why u broke up ..?? if it's about non sense..get back to him and make a fresh new start..if he cheated on you ..or dumped u 4 no reason ..
Just look for someone else ..and forget about the both of them ..
2006-10-22 17:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can value your ex as your best friend (and even love him for it), but there is a difference between loving someone romantically and loving a best friend. Think about the differences and you will know that there is nothing wrong with you, you just love the two of them but in a different way.
2006-10-22 17:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the fact's, replacing a ex you loved with all your heart is hard, but running into a relationship because you didnt want to be alone doesnt help either, I suggest you accept the fact that you are gonna love them both, and enjoy the man of your dream's if he is the one you are dreaming about.
2006-10-22 17:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Marjorie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up for a reason. You cant have the "boy of your dreams" and still love someone else- that relationship will be doomed. its not fair to him.
Focus on your new love- and take it slow. if its works out great. if not- then maybe the ex can be considered.
2006-10-22 17:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't love your best friend even while you were with him, then he wouldn't have been your ex. However, he is your ex for a reason - he must've done something or things just didn't work out.
You are happy with your new guy so see where it goes.
2006-10-22 17:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give yourself enough time after you broke up with your ex to be by yourself and get over all feelings. You need to be by yourself until you can decide what to do, because you are just stringing people along with you when it is your mess.
2006-10-22 17:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your current boy-toy ... he is just a rebound and you don't really love him
Don't get back with your ex ... he is your ex for a reason
Give yourself some time and find out who you are before you jump back into the dating scene
2006-10-22 16:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask both of them how they fell about you. then the one that gives you the most feelings gets you
2006-10-22 17:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by peanutbutterandkelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You just have to dumb the new guy cause you want the old one!
2006-10-22 17:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Shena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋