I'm 35 she's 22 we have fun together, but there will probably be issues down the road because of age waht to do?
2006-10-22 09:51:24 · 24 answers · asked by moraly c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 23 and seeing a 34 year old...not really a difference, and we're amazingly intellectually and physically (hehe) compatible.
You're going to get a lot of "that's wrong!" but in truth, it's up to you. You have great chemistry, don't let something so paltry like another person's hang ups about age deterr you!
Good luck!
2006-10-22 09:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not wrong! I'd give you a high five if I were there. People make way too big of a deal over the age thing. Then again most people are wrong.
The only time the age issue comes into play is if one person is too young to have a real relationship or plan a future. That's a different story. However at 22 this is probably not the case. It's *NOT* about whether it's 'ethical' but over whether it's practical. That's for you and your gf to decide, nobody else.
You are not doing anything wrong. Loving another person is never wrong.
2006-10-22 16:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, I hate to tell you this, but are you trying to relive your youth? She may be sweet, cute, and fun, however, her priorities are most likely what is Paris Hilton doing this week, and I hope yours is a little more detailed.LOL Disaster waiting to happen. This is not the old days where men married women way younger than themselves, cause they couldn't get anywhere to meet anyone else, this is the real world. Find yourself, a woman, and leave the kid, to people her own age. You are only asking for heartbreak, when she turns 35, and says, "What am I doing with this old guy?".
2006-10-22 17:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're both adults so it's not morally or legally wrong. Enjoy your time together and deal with issues as they come. Worrying about it now will only cause your relationship to be stressed when you are having so much fun together. Good luck!
2006-10-22 16:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Laurel_Eden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation. I am now married to that man. We really don't have to many age related issues. Mostly just that his parents didn't like it. Keep seeing her and see where it leads. By that way, it has now been 10 years together.
2006-10-22 16:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by jdc591 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they like each other and have fun
dont be too quick to judge a relationship just because of age difference
2006-10-22 16:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by .>StEvO<. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friends parents have a 15 year diff and they r happy age doesnt matter its just a number my parents r 10 years apart and r very happy good luck and if u really love each other age will never matter
2006-10-22 18:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well its not illegal so that's good. If your happy & get along great than go for it. Just be open & talk about those issues you are apparently aware of could come up later on. Good Luck!
2006-10-22 16:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by barbi316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with that. age is just a number. if u 2 have fun together - then thats all that counts. =]
2006-10-22 16:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah.* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with that.
my dad was 33 and he married a 18 year old and they still together 25 years later.
2006-10-22 16:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by Samuel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋