Me and my female friend Jen are both 17 years old. Me and her have been best friends for our whloe lives. She was at my house last night. We were in my room watching tv and then I kissed her and then she started kissing me back. The next thing I know we end up on my bed and we are still kissing and then she said make love to me. To make a story short we ended up having sex. I talked to her today and she said it did not mean anything to her. I do you not believe her when she says it ment nothing. I think it did mean something to her but she is afraid to tell me. What do you think. Do you think it means anything?
2006-10-22 09:45:15 · 8 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex always means something. to everyone, always. talk to her and find out what she's feeling, and don't be afraid to let her know how you are feeling too. it's okay to feel confused. if you guys are good friends, you'll work it out.
2006-10-22 09:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by thejanes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"It means nothing" is a defense mechanism, hun. She's afraid to show any emotion to save herself from being hurt. In truth, she may be trying to convince herself that it meant nothing.
Try not to take it too personally, and give yourselves time to cool down. If you're really good friends, time will allow you get past this pothole :)
2006-10-22 09:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends make the best lovers. You know each other completely. If you really care about her, and want something to happen, talk to her about your thoughts on becoming a couple.
2006-10-22 09:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a hard one. I think so, but you never can tell. If she is really that good of a friend then just talk to her. Get together just the two of you and talk about it.
2006-10-22 09:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the surroundings that led you both to sex. that means a lot. be happy and good in it.
2006-10-22 09:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it really means sumthin or why would u have sex 4 nothin? just2 b weird?
2006-10-22 09:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it means somthing - only if she's not a slut - if she has sex alot, then she was just having fun
2006-10-22 09:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by yo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's meaningless.
2006-10-22 09:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋