theres a boy i like but he likes my best friend aand he writes love letters to her i dont know what to do
shouuld i find another guy
or
folow my dreams and get my boy
2006-10-22 09:41:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how good of a friend your best friend is. If he later breaks up with him after dating him, she wouldn't want you dating him.
Also, if he were more interested in you, he would've been writing those letters to you.
There's other guys out there, possibly one that will be interested in you that much.
2006-10-22 09:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on for what ur heart says but if u can't find the way still then I would advice go on for what I am saying.............
Falling in love makes a person most happy. But a break up also makes a person most unhappy. Human psychology has a tendency to develop negative feelings against something which has caused you unhappiness. The thoughts of your previous experience always dominate your present. Your mind would not allow you to touch fire if you have experienced that it burns. Thats how the mind treats something that caused you harm.
So if you want to love another person again you will have to understand your own past and get releived of the harm it has caused you. Get over the negative feelings it has created in you. Only then a vacant space is created in your mind for thoughts of another person to occupy. So try to get over the negative feelings first.
Look for compatibility with the other person before you even think of falling in love. For a long term relationship you need to have a greater level of compatibility. THINK ABOUT IT and then you will yourself get it that you should fall in love the second time or not.
I am in Love with a girl who is from Nigeria and I being an Indian. I know that very rare chances ae there of our meetings or perhaps we will never meet but then also I love her though I know that only tears are my future but then also I am going in this Love because I know that what Love is.............If we Love somebody because we know that they are there somewhere near us in this life then It is not merely a Love. It is a kind of Loneliness that we feel when they are not there with you. But Love is not the Loneliness. Do not think where this relationship will carry on or not just remember that ..............You love him and so U will love him forever, either you get him or not. Do not put this condition in yours love because Love is Beyond the conditions and agreements.
But It is better 4 u to go on 4 that Love which u did at once though It might not come back to u. Love has no conditions. It does not mean that U should receive love from one whom u love. Just go on 4 loving might be u get him in ur dreams only but even the small fraction of second that u have spent with him will count for much and will be enough as memories for u to spend ur life.
Remember "Partings are also a part of ove and they only show the real meaning of meetings".
Just follow ur dreams and get him. That's an advice or U r going to hurt urself if u will leave him and search for another because true love can never be forgotten.
2006-10-22 17:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Raj.. Jaane tu ya Jaane Na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly you have to decide whom you like most the boy or your friend if the boy then you can go through but do not reveal your emotions try to make space in his heart then try but if you prefer your friend then try to make there love successfull
2006-10-22 16:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by aditya g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around there are other guys out there, don't waste your time on some guy that likes someone else. Move on!
2006-10-22 16:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find another guy...i think that is the best idea!
2006-10-22 16:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sabatoge her make sure your there to comfort him when she lies cheats or whatever. Women always do it but men are just too stupid. keeps your eyes open
2006-10-22 16:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by sally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy.
2006-10-22 16:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont lose him. becoz hes your boy.
2006-10-22 16:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find another guy
2006-10-22 16:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look , you can ask him yet and try your chance , but don;'t be upset when he says no .
2006-10-22 16:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋