hey.. theres this girl i keep thinking about and even though we met 2 years ago and saw each other for just a vacation i still cant really get her outta my head. She seems to have taken complete control of my sentimental state of mind.Ive had 2 girlfriends in the mean time that we were apart from each other and neither of em were just quite as amazing as she is. My God.. am I going crazy?? The only problem is, that we're thousands of miles away from each other and at a certain point over the past two yrs she stopped answering my email and we completely lost touch. I am so confused i just dont know what to do.. i figure if i go back to her she'll deffanatly reject me and ill feel the most miserable man on earth again. She seems incredibly far from me but still i can never let the thought of her leave my soul.. im CAUGHT UP in her beauty and flare. Please tell me something useful n i don mean the old same stuff like (why dont u try n youll no or forget her and move on wit yo life)helppls
2006-10-22 09:38:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fly over and see her and tell her exactly how you feel..she may feel the same but needs to hear it from you..do it quick before she meets mr wrong!!
2006-10-22 09:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happen to me about two years ago. I would love it if I found out he was still thinking about me after all this time because I have been thinking about him. I stopped taking his emails because it was too hard on me not being able to see him and i needed to get over him. I still think about him alot. Contact her you have nothing to loose. Tell her because she stop answering your emails you assumed the distance was getting in the way. Tell her you have been thinking about her and can't get her out your mind. That is one of the most romantic things i have ever heard. She may think so too. You just never know what might happen. I would not fly to see her because if she does not feel the same then it would be awkward. Email her and let her know. Good luck I really hope she feels the same.
2006-10-22 09:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Single Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are on vacation and meet someone, everything is like a dream.. very good for the most part. You must realize that what you ad was a moment and that was all it was meant to be..
You both live separate lives and have gone on with them.
Two years is a long time to be apart and only in contact by e-mail.
She has obviously realized it was only a fling and a wonderful memory as she has chosen not to answer your e-mails...
I think in your mind, you fantasize about what could have been... but that is not reality... you are living in what ifs... this is not healthy and will prevent you from going on with your life...
It was special and a wonderful time, but it is the past... you must live now and for your future....
2006-10-22 09:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont know untill you try, no need to get down about it, untill you've tried all the options availabe, go to her, and hear it from her... otherwise u may kick yourself when she says in 40 years time that she;s been waiting for you to find her... be her knight in shining armour!
Women use reverse psychology alot! good luck and i hope it all works out for u...
Keep trying!!! (if at first you dont succeed try, try and try again)
2006-10-22 09:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and find her no matter what,if she then rejects you after all your effort you will know where you stand,hard i am sure,but if it happened to me nothing would stop me,good luck.
2006-10-22 09:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the sound off things i think shes blow you out if i was you remember the good times that you had with her but move on stop going on about something that ain't going too be there .....sorry but hope things sort out for you take care,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-10-22 09:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋