2006-10-22 09:37:44 · 15 answers · asked by satiku123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if yes why if no why
2006-10-22 09:43:56 · update #1
In junior high and high school that's basically how it works -- saying, "Will you go out with me?" usually means "Will you be my girlfriend?"
In the real world when you're an adult, it means, "Want to go get dinner?" or "Want to go see a movie?" or simply put, "Want to go on a date?" That doesn't mean that you're in a relationship with the person.... that means you went on a date... After a series of dates with the person, then comes the "Are we exclusive?" talk to determine whether you are now that person's girlfriend/boyfriend....
Relationships.... Fun.
2006-10-22 09:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww.... that is the most adorable question ever!
Sorry, I didn't mean to be patronizing, it just brings me right back to that age.
Anyway, the best bet is to ask someone out for a specific night - to dinner, to the movies, to the beach, etc., and just slowly see where it goes. See if there's any chemistry.
Don't be so quick to label it. Just take it one day at a time, hun.
Good luck :)
2006-10-22 09:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you decide to go out more often with the same girl, then yes. Otherwise, just date other girls until you find one you'd really like to spend more time with.
2006-10-22 09:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Da Bomb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather not call a first date a girlfriend. gotta actually acknowledge that the two of you are in some sort of romantic relationship.
2006-10-22 09:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by recentlyconfirmedagnosticofminds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, some people think that asking someone out is asking someone to be your girlfriend/boyfriend. if thats not what your looking for or wanting, be specific "will you go out with me? but im not looking for a serious relationship". if it IS what your looking for, then say, "will u be my girlfriend/boyfriend". some people just need you to specify your intentions. =]
2006-10-22 09:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by Bohemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you go on more than 1 date... or if she says shes ur girlfriend
2006-10-22 09:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on you and the girl you go out with and the situation and if you have asked her ....
2006-10-22 09:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends whether they said yes or not! if they did, then yeah, it usuallly means you're going out.
2006-10-22 09:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by ezzyn06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! But recently a first date of mine thought that as well......seriously...NO, cause if you think that it'll freak the girl out like it did me! :)
2006-10-22 09:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no they can but not at first i just go on dates with people and there not my grilfreinds
2006-10-22 09:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋