We're in "break" mode...don't know what's going to happen in the future. I want to give enough space to resolve the external issues, but not so much that he thinks I have just moved on and don't care. What should I do??
I'm well aware of the reason for the "break", and he's not keeping anything from me. I understand why it has to happen...neither of us want it to happen and we love each other deeply. There are just things beyond our control right now, and a couple of decisions must be made...there is some confusion, as well, but we both agree that we are meant for each other and can't see any other relationship being even half as good. I don't want to lose this person from my life, but I don't want to push too hard, either.
2006-10-22 09:35:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look i understand but sometimes you have to prime the pump even if you break it by doing so . show him your willing to fight for his love and your not going away . by giveing up your saying maybe this is best lol. heck with that stand up and fight so afterwards youll be able to look in mirror and say i gave it my best shot then you can walk away with clear head towards someone who really wants you . take charge of this no space here lol get close now and let your feels end this or save it either way you cant win without trying here . dont fake anything let your heart flow freely and give it your all here . love is rare and worth the fight and being a women dosent mean giveing in anymore . im a guy i know . he will be glad to see your serious and this will make him chose and thats a must here so get up now and go get him . good luck
2006-10-22 09:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life and be strong in your heart knowing that if God wants you too together then nothing will keep you apart from each other. The best thing for you is to go about everyday the same but give him his space. I think its ok to call maybe once every few weeks just to see how he is doing but I would call twice a week or anything. Give each other the space and time to think about this relationship. If its meant to be then you will be reunited.
2006-10-22 16:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think taking a break from a relationship is a good sign. I think you know what you should do but are to afraid to really let go. If two people truly love eachother there's no taking a break. What things are beyond your control that keep you from being together. Is it that one of you has another person??? I don't thinl you two belong together honestly. Also is he trying to call you??? think about it.
2006-10-22 16:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're on a "break" then don't call.
It's the only way the "break" will work. You both should be using this time to figure out your thoughts on the relationship without each other's influence.
2006-10-22 16:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the break is mutual, shouldn't call too soon; you do need to keep in touch though, how will you know if the problems are resolved-seems getting through the issues together is the best solution...
2006-10-22 16:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you really want to be with him. Not pushy but let him know you still care and are there for him. but not constantly, just once.
2006-10-22 16:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive in fighting And making things work love is special so fight for it life is what you make it
2006-10-22 16:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Eric c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how long the break has been-if it's been more than a week call him
2006-10-22 16:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes call him and make him feel you are still interested and worried and care about him .
2006-10-22 16:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by MIKE IVANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea call him.....but make it seem causual then if u want bring up ur relationship.....or maybe he willl either way call him.
2006-10-22 16:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by party planner. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋