2006-10-22 09:30:28 · 26 answers · asked by devilmania 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 options:
1) deal with it, and one day you can date some guy she likes and not feel bad
2) Tell her it bothers you...
a) if she doesn't care, and it still bothers you, and you don't want to use my first idea, un-friend her
b) if she cares how you feel, and stops going with him, then you'll have a happy friendship as long as you don't do the same to her
2006-10-22 09:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by redims81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that almost all relationships are temporary, and the ones that last the longest are usually friendships. For now, i would just try to stay friends with both of them. and, whatever u do, dont make the mistake of forsaking your relationship with ur friend. THAT is much more important. And who knows? if ur lucky, u may end up with that guy in a few months. Just have patience. And if u ever need a friend to talk to, u can always talk to jesus. Hes ALWAYS there for u and WANTS to help u if u will let him.
2006-10-22 16:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by johnpsager 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously that is not ur best friend. If she had openly told u that she has feelings for him and would like to know him better, things wud be different. Anyway i think u shud just let go. Talk to her and tell her how u feel abt the whole situation. Good luck.
2006-10-22 16:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by ydo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen this question on answers before. It's sad that our friends do this to us. She is not a best friend if you ask me. I say go start flirting with the guy that she told you she liked and see how she likes that!
2006-10-22 16:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by chrisser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never approached this guy than its ok your friend is going out with him. Let it go and learn the next time you have an interest in someon make your move.
2006-10-22 16:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your best friend about how this makes you feel. If she is really your friend she will find a new guy. Or make a play for him yourself. Alls fair in love and war. Hang in there.
2006-10-22 16:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by sxybggr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the guy really like her or you? U should ask him. And if not than just try to move on, and find a better man!
2006-10-22 16:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Hottie24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend and get on with your life. Real friends respect one another's feelings much more than this person seems to be doing.
2006-10-22 16:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoah well i think you should forget about this guy and especially your best friend too. if she really was your friend she wouldn't have gone with him. friends should be first than guys. there's millions of guys out there for you. don't worry things happen for a reason. forget him and her. there's a real good friend for you out there
2006-10-22 16:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should totally sit her butt down and tell her that you like him and you don't like that she is going out with him. Or maybe you should move on because if she is your firend you would want her to be happy and she would want you to be happy so talk to her.
2006-10-22 16:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by Britters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋