I know this is a pretty stupid quesiton but I'm so confused. See, I have liked this guy for 4 years now. Last year I asked him out but I didn't know he had a girlfriend, so I waited. Me and him are friends but I dunno...any opinions?
2006-10-22 09:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by Vshak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's see...
After dating someone for quite a while and working out all of the issues that we've had...
I'd say, "Love is undefinable."
Whether or not you dream about someone, think about them all the time, etc. etc. has absolutely nothing to do with whether you love someone or not.
Those signs are just a "crush". Although I think about my boyfriend a lot and I do dream of him, there are more important signs to "love". You won't know for sure if you're in love. It's hard to decide, actually. Some people stay together out of custom, it'd just be too different to be apart, and so they stay together. But when you make the commitment to be with someone for a long time, then you'll know that you're in the right direction xD
Right now, I define my love with Rory as: understanding, willing to work things out, trusting, and not going to let little things get in the way.
We don't need to be with eachother all of the time and we don't need to be thinking about eachother/dreaming about eachother all of the time. We have a million things to do: work, college, our day in general. But it's always nice to come home and him be there for me, or vice versa.
Your Love should be your *Best Friend* and yet, something more than that, but of course people define it in different ways.
I think that's all I got for now, Sam xD
But, I am talking to you right now, I guess I could've just sent this to you, but posting is cool, too.
Kristen
Edit:
Also, my face doesn't turn red everytime I see him, nor do I get butterflies. He's my Best Friend. We laugh a lot, we have so many inside jokes, and yet we can be really sincere if we need to be sincere and talk about something. And I am more comfortable around him than anyone else, so why would I need to do those nervous habits? xD
Although, I love seeing him and am pretty excited to see him when I haven't seen him all day/all week.
2006-10-22 09:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you feeling as if you're just hanging in mid-air? you don't know what to do... and you don't know if you should give up?
since you've already asked him last year, he should know that you like him... but he didn't come to you, did he?
it's hard, but let go... 4 years is long enough... spend your time on someone who loves you.
2006-10-22 09:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfiend, leave him alone, he might be very happy with her. There are plenty of guys out there.
2006-10-22 09:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when your in love trust me you'll feel it when you are around him you'll be able to tell and you'll probably dream about him etc..
2006-10-22 09:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
signs:
u dream of him
u notice everything he says/does
u u try to impress him a lot.
u talk about him all the time......
2006-10-22 09:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by iamadam'sgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel really hppy and different you won't be able to stop smiling
2006-10-22 09:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by snowflake10012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your heart'll go fast and your face'll get red when you see him. when he's not around, you miss him.
2006-10-22 09:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by mi2z_myst3ry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur heart will tell you
2006-10-22 09:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋