Bars and clubs are out of the question as usually not the best place as 9/10 guys are after one thing! and its not asking when he can next see you!
Singles Nights- a glossed over way of organising a free sex session.
Online Dating - It appears if you are not 20, size 8, huge boobs and blonde no one is interested...
Can I just point out that I am not a huge way off from the above description hehehe!
I am begining to think all the nice 27+ guys have been snapped up....
Your suggestions and thoughts........................
2006-10-22 09:24:15 · 29 answers · asked by michelle_terry21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to find a descent guy, a ski slope or the foot of a ladder is a good place to start. lol xxx
If you want a decent guy, it isn't that simple!
2006-10-22 09:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by kiteeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first thing you need to do is stop lying to yourself about where the most likely places to meet men are.
Bars and clubs - people go here to socialize. Few to no men are looking to get laid as long as you stay out of the dives. Men come here to meet women. Most men are nice, normal people with much the same goals and desires as you have. Best place to meet men is at bars that people go to after work or at tasteful and upscale cocktail lounges (people wearing suits). Dress nicely. Go alone. Be warm and friendly and talk to the guys who will approach you. Clubs are not such a good place to meet men, not because they aren't there but because it is loud and difficult to talk there.
Singles nights? What the hell are those? Join a singles club. Singles clubs (do a google for the ones in your state) are groups developed specifically to expand your circle of friends. They organize events....hikes, day trips, restaurant outings etc. The better the club, the more the events. Go to the events. Talk to the people there and get to know them. This is a form of networking. You meet a man who knows someone you met at an outing.
Online dating. Most men who contact you are losers. Some of them most definitely are not. Easy to tell the difference. Hey baby, want to get together for sex? vs Hi. I saw your profile and you seem like a nice person. I'd like to meet you for coffee and get to know you a bit. Gee, I wonder which one you should respond to? For best results, you do the initiating. Most men get zero reponses to their adds as women are culturally conditioned to not approach and instead, stand around like dorks waiting for a man to fall out of the sky. Any woman who does different gets first pick of any guy she wants, lol. Meet for coffee. Find out if you are interested. If interested, email each other and talk on the phone. Spend time together getting to know eachother (do I need to draw you a map?)
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2016-11-24 22:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by duffield 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you cant find a "nice guy" because you opinion of guys seems to be so low. I wouldnt sat 9/10 guys are only after one thing. We're after lots of things. For me, I definately am not put off by a girl only giving me her number and making me work for the rest. There are some right creepy buggers out there tho.
2006-10-22 09:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by bit_of_a_square 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up your own website all about you and when you see a guy you like, give him a business card with the address on. You can start with a few emails and take it from there!!
A bit of hard work to start with, but is an interesting way of doing things!! Just an idea...
2006-10-22 09:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by Horizontal Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone I knew found love at a bus station, well she first met the man for her there.
While my sister met her now boyfriend at a coach station in Gloucester or on the coach anyway...
I met some nice girls while doing Mojive (modern dance classes with free style) and got about 2 dates before she buggered off home to Spain. Nice girl though.
2006-10-22 09:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everthing u just named was a bad idea in the first place expecially if ur wanting to meet a decent guy. Simple places like the grocery store, movie theatre, church etc would be better places to search. & my initial answer was that there are no decent men out there but there are. U just have to be patient & keep looking.
2006-10-22 09:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by Bam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a decent 26 y/o guy, but if you are not 20, size 8, huge boobs, and blonde then I'm not gonna waste my time talking to you
2006-10-22 09:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi i feel the same about trying to find a decent girl, its true about bars and discos and online dating less said about that.. i am 41 and yes was married for 16 years so getting back into the dating thing daunting. email me mark_newby88@yahoo.co.uk
2006-10-22 09:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all decent guys are older. if your worried about all their after why not make the first move yourself.
besides which i was under the impression that all the decent gals in that age group were snapped up also so i suppose its only fair that the decent guys are too!
2006-10-22 09:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by gees_a_pint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋