he told me he loved me and he would never leave me but i kinda cheated on he with my ex because old feelings came back and he forgave me but months later we argue again and we break up and he tells me he never loved me but he did all these things for me and with me and brought me things for nothing because he wanted to play me but i still love him what do i do
2006-10-22 09:23:37 · 12 answers · asked by renachi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think he means it!he is just saying that because of that fling you had with your ex!..he was hurt and that is why you said that to you!so what is best,just give him some space and you never know he might come running back to you!best of luck!
2006-10-22 09:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really hurt him. Sorry. I have no sympathy for you. You cheated. Deal with the consequences. If his actions and words are bothering you so much, why don't you break it off. I mean, you pretty much put the relationship down the pooper the minute you cheated on him. If you love him, let him go. You two are obviously hurting each other because of what you did. Move on.
2006-10-22 09:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Angelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's kind of complex. lol. I have rekindled feelings for someone even though I have a bf, too. Don't be too sad and hang on what he did to you. If he wants to be a major blowhard, let him. Fighting with him about it will only make matters worse. But when you get the chance, take him out to coffee or something relaxing. Talk to him about how you feel and what happened from your perspective. I have three brothers and fighting with them just makes us angry at each other. If he listens calmly and still doesn't want to be with you again, than he probably wasn't the right guy for you anyway.
2006-10-22 09:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by Saffron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that, he doesn't care about you. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? A few years ago, I was heart broken over someone, but at the end of the day, although I was so hurt over him, I didn't want to be with him unless he could feel the same about me again- which he wouldn't.
Last, you cheated. When you cheat on someone, you might as well just end it. If you cheat once, you'll do it again. Twice, forget about it.
2006-10-22 09:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said those things to you because you hurt him. Men are different than woman, that's his coping mechanism. He loved you. Most men don't get back together with women who cheat on him. I wish we women wouldn't be so easy to take men back. Like most of us you'll always love some of your ex's. That's the way it is. Don't cheat on anyone else...
2006-10-22 09:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by indepwman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be strong and make up your mind to forget such a cheat. it hurts but it is still the best thing to do.The earlier you do this the better for you.You should also try to forgive this person. The scriptures says "Vengience is mine I shall revenge" By your forgiveness you are heaping coal of hell fire on ths person.FORGIVE AND FORGET AND CARRY ON WITH YOUR LIFE
2006-10-22 09:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by michaelobafunshopeters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!!! Breathe!!!! Punctuation is a beautiful thing... look into it!!!
He probably is just telling you he never loved you because you hurt him badly, and he wants to hurt you back to get revenge.
2006-10-22 09:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like it doesnt bother you.
Make sure u act like the strong one who's independant and u dont need a man in ur life to take care of you.
He'll come back trust me!!
2006-10-22 09:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can only pick one: your ex or him...
i think that ur ex is your past... so you shudn't dwell on it.
can't you tell he's lying about not loving you? he's hurt...
you should tell him how you really feel and be faithful.
2006-10-22 09:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Ning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just leave it alone.You learn from your mistakes and life goes on
2006-10-22 09:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋