by her ex boyfriends friend what should i do about this
2006-10-22 09:21:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
there is nothing you can do about it . be there for her when she needs you
2006-10-22 09:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are many things to do, that is first you have to know was it rape or wanted at the time so you can have the ability to press charges or not. Second if she wants the baby she can keep it after giving birth and keep the little one away from her father because he'll probably want it aswell or they can equally do there jobs as parents. If the baby isn't wanted and its not to late sadly you might want to go abort the little one which is sad, or have the darling and sent it out to the adobsing agency. Though if you want the little one, but have problems because of school and other daily life's stuff that gets in the way I suggest that you either let the boyfriend take care of the little one as you get rid of your problems, or if you have problems with the ex then ask a family memeber; a very close family memeber to take care of 'em.
Also if your girlfriend doesn't want her ex to be apart of any of this I suggest you take care of the little one during her troubles or you help her out with the baby. Treat the little one as both your own.
Good luck.
2006-10-22 17:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by fireshadows357 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...well, by the PHRASING of your question, you make yourself sound like her current boyfriend, in which case I would say, if you love her, stay with her. If you feel betrayed then dump her and let her take care of herself.
But, from the looks of your avatar (a female), by "girlfriend" you mean your friend who is also a girl, like you are. In which case I say: it's really not your problem, but if you are really close friends just support her in her decisions.
There is nothing that you "should" do about the situation, it takes two to tango and you weren't there.
2006-10-22 16:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her ex boyfriend. She go on with her life let the person know and have a healthy beautiful child. It might be some bad things said because of the situation but who cares there is only one man who can judge and that is GOD.
2006-10-22 16:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, How into this girl are you? Are you really wanting a relationship where you may be caring for someone elses child?
Or do you like her enough to be there for her and get serious... help her throughout her pregnancy become attatched to the child and risk the possibility that she may stay with you OR leave you. Noone on here can tell you what to do or what to decide, its time for you to do some serious thinking.
2006-10-22 16:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer is left up to you, did she get pregnant while you 2 were together? If that is the case then she wasnt being faithful, but if it happened before you all were together then that is something you may have accepted when you started dating, but again the decision is up to you
2006-10-22 18:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should help her with the baby if u love her
and tell her to also go after the father for child support
as well
2006-10-22 16:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey she is cheating on you and you still want her you have to leave her cos she does not love you .if she really did she wouldnt have gone behind you to sleep with ex .leave her and move on
2006-10-22 16:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by cutie senzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for when she feels down, be a friend, stay close, let her know that even thow it was kinda messed up, everything's gonna be ok.(if you two are girlfriends)
2006-10-22 16:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by aura v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her she is going to need you
2006-10-22 16:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm nothing just give her a lot of support ((if you want to))
2006-10-22 16:34:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋