He's as shy as I am when it comes to those things, and I want him to hold my hand. I can't figure out how to tell him because I'm not one of the best talkers in the world. lol
2006-10-22 09:19:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so innocent , just take his hand in yours and hold it , look into his eyes and see how he reacts , you both are so sweet and innocent , it is so refreshing too know there are still kids out there like you guys , your parents did a great job raising you guys ,
2006-10-22 09:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna not be like everyone else. Yes you should make the first move. And this is because by you making the first move, he now knows that you are ready to move a bit further in your relationship (the physical parts anyway). If he's really shy like you say, then most likely the reason why he's not doing anything because he doesn't want you to get mad or something like that. And I doubt he's gonna get mad if you hold his hand. It's all ready been a year, I think it's safe to say that you can hold his hand. Have fun with your hand holding ;)
2016-05-21 22:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could write him a note or you could just grab his hand. Either way would let him know what you wanted.
If he is you two are going out, why then are you two so shy towards each other? Just come out and tell him.
2006-10-22 09:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is shy, you make a move on him. Grab a hold of his hands. Actions speak louder than words. My boyfriend used to be like that. He was hella shy, but then I keep making moves on him then he started to be himself and not so shy anymore.
2006-10-22 09:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take Action and grab his hand, yea it might take some guts and feel awkward from the beginning, but it will be worth it. You just gotta go ahead and do it ! (He probably wants to hold your hand too, but is to shy also!)
2006-10-22 09:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Shawn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww this is a cute question! don't tell him you want to do it but while your walking with him have your arm naturally swing and have your hand hit his do it once or twice and he should catch on and grab onto your hand if not just slip your hand in his and then walk closer so your arms rub together. Don't be scared he will love it!
2006-10-22 09:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab his hand while your walking! It's not really that hard! I'm sure once you start doing it, he'll warm up to it! Then stop for a while and he will start grabbing your hand himself!
2006-10-22 09:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by RKO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both that shy, maybe you shouldn't be together. Also if he asked you out, I dont see how hard it is to hold your hand. Just grab his hand.. it'll open you both up to be less shy
2006-10-22 09:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by KK 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Slowly grab his hand...don't make a big deal of it by staring at him. Do it while you're walking and keep looking forward.
2006-10-22 09:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by indepwman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the sweetest thing I've heard in a long time.
Why not just brush your hand against his and see what happens?
2006-10-22 09:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋