Well me and my Ex met through a muteual friend and we really liked each other and the day after we met we were going out together.
It was going steady she was staying at mine her family liked me but a couple of months into it one night she started crying and told me that her family could be moving away outside of the Uk (Faraway) this shuck me up but was detemined to make it work so we talked about it and there was a chance she could stay so i put it to the back of my mind.
More time went past and she went on holiday and when she can back she got a message off her friend that i had cheated on her (i didnt) and she had changed somewhat.She seemd to of believed me and carried on but we seemd to get into a routine and drift slightly apart.
More time went on i stil loved her but i came to a point were we startd fightin over smal things so we had a no sex break, 2 weeks later i wents 2 her house and we split up and 5 month 2gether.
Its been afew days n stil luv her n want her bk.
2006-10-22 09:10:50 · 10 answers · asked by Car_lad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Edit:
Reason for spliting up she said because she wanted some time to spend with her friends and she said that if she didnt do i know she would hert me down the line, even though she loves me...
She said we might be able to get back together because she might just need abreak..
2006-10-22 09:16:12 · update #1
if you really deep down want her back then send a big bouqet of flowers to her house!!tell her you love her and want to work things out if she acts cold then move on cause you sound like a great guy..sure loadsa ladies would love you good luck x
2006-10-22 09:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, that is terrible. well you got to understand something here. she had changed somewhat, and she believed the worst about you. hummm.... no go my friend.
I have learned that if you break up and then go back together, it is lots easier to break up the second time, and then the third. It just won't work. If you break up once and then back together the same day, then yeah, it is love, but after this long a time, well nope she is moving on and so should you. It is okay, it happens to people everyday and it hurts them just the way you are hurting. Perhaps you should just stay in a little while and then go and see what ladies have been added to the lineup while you were in steady and now that your not, they are probably looking pretty good.
2006-10-22 09:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys have been having troubles for awhile- why didnt you talk to her and try to fix things before the break- up?
I would wait a bit. Let things settle- and let her decide if she misses you. If you try now- she may still be angry. I would wait 2 weeks then send her flowers and a card- telling her you were wrong for letting her go ( trust me this works) and you miss her. Tell her to meet you at a restuarant that Friday. You will be there hoping that she shows up. That friday- send her a single red rose with a card saying the other 11 roses will be waiting for you tonite.
You need to make her feel special- and let her come to you.
2006-10-22 09:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. although you both really like each other i think the best way to make this relationship work is to step back and take things slowly. i know this may be hard to do but it is the best way because at the moment your relationship is not stable at all, 5 months isn't enough at all to build a relationship. it takes years to know someone well. Yes, there is chemistry between the 2 of you but take things slowly because this period of both of your lifes is a transition phase, she may like you but she is still adjusting in her relationship with you. i also strongly believe that Strong Communication is essential between the two of you so that even if she travels abroad there is trust between you two and that no lies may be shared to her about you. so take it slowly, think of your aim and believe that it shall happen. let it not be a rush.
2006-10-22 09:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by jacux55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me never go backwards only forwards. Once there is doubt in someones mind over trust its hard to heal whether you did anything or not. But in my opinion she used this as the opportunity to break up with you in order to move on guilt free....
2006-10-22 09:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by michelle_terry21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakups are hard, if you manage to get into some kind of friendly terms again, you never know what can happen. Try to focus on the future, not on the past..
2006-10-22 09:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by capitaine flam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both seem to be good at talking but sometimes you need a counciler to help solve some of those minor problems. Not your friends.
2006-10-22 09:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you want your ex back I would assume you became a pert, so if you give up being a pert you will get your ex back, and that would make you an expert.
2006-10-22 09:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by mr bump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her how much u love her and how much she means to u
2006-10-22 09:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by hottie911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have no selfrespect you never do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-22 09:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Danny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋