i asked this girl out,she said she needed to get to know me more but she also said that i shouldnt wait for her,because shes not the only girl in the school and that once she got to know mw better she would date me but for the mean time were only friends.
ok so she's giving me the free way to meet other girls and to not wait for her so much.but she also tells me that we have to gt to know each other a little better and then maybe she'll go out with me.
should i stop sitting next to her and stop talking to her a little by little and start seeing other girls?or should i keep trying to get to know her more and keep sitting next to her?we only get like 5 minutes in the whole class to talk.
my plan is to sit with her this monday and have the funnest time i can have with her and then tuesday i wont sit next to her,start talking to other girls(in the same class) and not talk to her so much.
what should i do?thx.
2006-10-22 09:04:25 · 14 answers · asked by ◄ZΨΦИ► 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
@ SO why do you think that you have an issue? I have a bouy friend. He is the Carpenter from Carver. He likes to kiss me right in the middle if you know what I mean, well anyway the other day my mom through him out for not taking out the trash so I took it out and then she still won't let him back HELLO The trash is out so whats the problem, Well anyway he has moved next door top my best friends house in a new apartment. My best friends house! She knows that I like him and now he won't answer my text messages so should I keep trying? HELLO, of course I should I don't want him to kiss her there. but why won't he answer me? I think I am going to go over there and just walk in and then jump on top of him. If the police come so what. At least I will get one last chance.
2006-10-25 17:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by buddiessister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your plan to sit next to her one day talk to her then move on is good, because if she is interested and worth it, she will try to get with you. Then get prepared because games do often back fire. You are no better than she is because you are trying to do the same thing in reverse and girls are pretty smart she may figure it out and feel she was right for having her doubts.
2006-10-22 16:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good plan, however there's a loop hole in that plan. Think, if she were to see you hanging around other girls then she'll think that your taking her advise and she may think that you might go out with them and forget her like that. I'd keep friendships with the girls while with her. have fun with both the girls and her. Makeing her smile is the objective of the hang out. finding common ground. don't matter about the other girls, it's her you want right? well make her feel like you really think she's the one you wanna be in a relationship with, suceed in her game she wants to play with you. She's testing you I guess. So make her feel like your a uniqe guy from all the other guys she has known.
2006-10-22 16:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what. If u really like this girl. Keep trying for like another week. If she doesn't show interest in u then move on the other girls.
Ask for her number if she say i need to get to know u first. Tell her this not going to work cause u guys only get 5 minutes each day. And tell her u really like her and tell her she is not going to regret this and if she say no. move on.
2006-10-22 16:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by MFC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is her way of saying that she might get interested in you in the future but right now she's not. That means you could win her over. In my opinion, she could be testing you to see if you're just going after every girl or just her and that's why she said not to wait for her and to go for other girls. So if you really want to be with her, don't go after other girls.
2006-10-22 16:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by AG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait if you realy like soone then wait fro that love an get to now her better so she can get to no you better you can not ever rush ones love our there feelings so just wait a coulo mounth our so and if it dose not wrok put then move on an find a new target
2006-10-22 16:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by keeley n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I HAVE A FRIEND THAT HE HAD THE SAME PROBLEM THAT YOU HAVE.... I MEAN HE WOULD ALWAYS CALL HER AT HER PHONE AND "TRY" TO TALK TO HER BUT YOU HE NEVER EVEN HAD A CHANCE TO GO OUT WITH HER......I THINK YOU SHOULD MOVE ON AND TALK TO OTHER GIRLS.....I MEAN ITS SO OBVIOUS THAT THIS GIRL DOESNT WANT YOU.....
2006-10-22 16:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by jessica o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be friends with her then sit beside her and do that.
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I that happened to me then, I would not expect more than that from her...
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does she ever start the conversation?
does she ever call you first?
does she ever im or email you first?
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If she liked you what would be the answers to those questions?.
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2006-10-22 16:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, find an other girl but dont eliminate her from your possibilities, but dont use other girls to get her!
2006-10-22 16:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Dillon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and sit by her, but based on what she has said, she isn't really interested in being anything more than friends with you.
2006-10-22 16:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋