Last week my bf said it during sex and then never mentioned it again. I didn't say anything about it either because he already knows I love him. I just don't say it that often. And today he almost said it again but changed the last part of the sentence. I don't understand what is going on.
2006-10-22 08:56:11 · 18 answers · asked by cookie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to badmouth my own sex.....but sweetheart, I wouldn't bet on it. Do some soul searching, at the same time press him to start telling the truth..........GOOD LUCK............LATER
2006-10-22 09:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by veteranpainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't believe it during the heat of passion, a guy will tell you anything during sex. If he says he loves you any other time (not during sex or fore play), then I would think he does. All you can do is wait and see if he really does.
P.S. He can also show you he loves you in other ways without saying it.
Take care.
2006-10-22 16:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Zodiac_Child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys say it because they are in the moment. My boyfriend says it to me in the moment, and on a daily basis. So if he makes an effort to say it, he wants to tell you like you said. He changed the end of the sentence. So that means he wants to say it he is just a little nervous. Just be careful, maybe you should sit down with him and talk to him about it. It might squeeze it out of him.
good luck sweetie!
2006-10-22 15:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys say alotta things in the heat of the moment like "i love you" or "you gonna have my baby" or just anything that they penis feeling at the moment...if thats the only time he says it then he doesnt mean it...because after yall finished he was like " why did i say 'I love you' now she is gonna be thinking it and going crazy....he may even go as far as sayin i got love for you to try to make up for sayin them 2 words while sex...when he says that dump him because all he is ,,,,,,,,is a dick
2006-10-22 16:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by toya1jolly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man can't say I love you any other time but just during sex, they usually don't love you. They just love the sex.
2006-10-22 16:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by springreed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its right up there with the check is in the mail.
Men think if they say they love you you will start looking at rings and wedding dresses. They run scared. It used to be, in the olden days, we at least waited for the guy to say they loved us before we gave it up. Maybe that would be a good thing to bring back.
2006-10-22 16:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm , well some guy just say whatever they think you wanna hear during sex , while other guys have a hard time just saying I love you on random. it would depend on the guy and how long you have been with him ,also how serious the relationship is and your ages.
2006-10-22 15:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by pammeh_2k6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although he probably does love you, when he says it during sex maybe its because he thinks its something you need to hear during the act.
2006-10-22 16:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by jose1976gallo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe
you dont understand what going on?? you've got a boyfriend thats infatuated with you- somehow, you dont seem to thrilled
my friends and i used to refer to the L-Bomb as the phrase that pays. We didnt drop the L-Bomb often, but opportune times yielded explosive results, i hope you're young enough to disregard the last paragraph in its entirety
2006-10-22 15:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing said during sex is actionable...if hes editing what he says during sex its not a good sign.
2006-10-22 15:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy said that they love u that means that wanted 2 spend da rest of their lives wit u and that u mean everything 2 them and that they dont want 2 loose u and that u are their sould mate 4 life.
2006-10-22 15:59:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋