tips? stories? what should i do? started as friends....?
i just started going out with my first boyfriend.this is a very broad question. but i mean i have spent all my life playing hard to get and single.but not i finally have a bf and i dont really know how to act.
we both are 14 and have been good friends for the past few monthes. i sit by him and his friends at lunch (ik them all pretty well) and usually act like "one of the guys"
so if you can give me any help stories or anything i will greatly appreciate it
should i start to act "luvvy dubby"?
take it slow?
just hang out with him more?
i would like many different opinions...
2006-10-22 08:43:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just for the record i am a christain and plan on saving it until marriage
2006-10-22 08:53:00 · update #1
Ok, good. So far you've done great! Now my opinion of what you should do is to take it slow but not too slow. Do not act lovvvvvyyyy dooovvvyyyy around his friends cause, dont ask. But when your alone, go for it. Once you are more comphortable you can go act loovvvyyyy dovvvyyyy whereever. After along time it don't matter. Just give em all time to adjest to you being with him.
2006-10-22 08:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are only fourteen then you don't have a whole life to have spent playing hard to get!! Just act however comes naturally ... don't feel pressured to act a certain way just because you have a boyfriend. Be yourself ... and take it slow. You're young, inexperienced, and this is your first boyfriend ... so no need to rush into anything. So, like I said, just be yourself. Keep your personality .... being someone's girlfriend doesn't change who YOU are.
2006-10-22 15:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by ♦Hollywood's Finest♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act the same way you have to be friends to be in any relationship to me. since you are like a best friend,now that you are a girlfriend than it is better, because you have something more to confine in. just take small steps with him, maybe give hima hug or something. talk to him about how you feel. It will come natural so let things ride.
2006-10-22 15:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should act the same way. He likes u 4 u soo be yourself! Watch what he does and dont try to act too much differently bcuz then he'll think sum thin is up=>
2006-10-22 15:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by blonde_chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Whatever you've been doing is obviously working. If thats hanging out and having fun then keep doing that. Things will happen in their own time.
Just dont rush things, enjoy taking things slowly, getting to know him but most important .. have fun and laugh!!
2006-10-22 15:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still going to school, you have your whole life a head of u. Shouldn't u be concentrating on other things, so the guys can rise UP to you when you graduate college. Then u can have your pick. Think about that!
2006-10-22 15:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow and just be yourself. If you have to act like someone else to get him to stay w/ you, then he is not worth your time. Damn you kids start early nowadays... I didn't have my first g/f till I was 17. Makes me feel a little unloved but w/e.
2006-10-22 15:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by Charles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey how can you have spent all ur life playin hard to get?When ur life hasnt even begun yet.Your still a baby,if i knew wat i know now wen i was 14 i would have stayed a virgin until i was married r until i wasmuch older....N no dont act lovey dubby,cuz if u change he wont want u anymore...So stay YOU.....
2006-10-22 15:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang more than after 2 weeks act wubby dubby or whatever you call it.
2006-10-22 15:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Cool Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think take things slow, to go from friends for a long time to "going out" is a jump.
2006-10-22 15:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋