whats the best way to apologise to a guy for being over the top?
whats the best way to apologise to a guy for being over the top?
i was dating this guy the last time we left it he wnted to take me for dinner...then i herd nothing nothing at all...i was really worried and concerned he seemed really in to me and very genuine..i text him and called but got no reply i asked his friend he got no reply either...this went for a week i was actually genuinely worried that he had been in an acident or something..i was also really upset..he texted me and said he was sorry about not replying but his phone had been broken for over two weeks ( and i do belkeive this as my freind is dating his mate and his mate could not get in contact either over this time..i got really upset as i relly did not know if he had died or something and i really liked him...anyway he has just texted me he said sorry for not replyng but his phone was broken he had just had it fixed today and had been at his sons birthday all day and he did not need this pressure...what should i say back to keep my dignity and his respect HELP GUYS
2006-10-22 08:35:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To keep your dignity and respect .. say Goodbye! If he was so into you he would have found a way to contact you with or without the use of a phone. You were right to be worried after the way he left it and not over the top at all in thinking he may have been in an accident.
HE should be the one apologising to you not the other way around.
Get rid of the loser and find someone who thinks more about you than that jerk. If he really liked you he truly would have found a way!
2006-10-22 08:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll only keep your dignity and win back his respect if you show some humility. Go to him...face to face is best, even if it's only two minutes...and apologize. Apologize first for your own behavior, then tell him how worried you were about him. End by apologizing again, so he knows you're not making excuses for your behavior.
You didn't give us any information about what you did that was over the top. It's just a great big abrupt hole in your story. If you're going to make things right again, you have to remember as much as you can of what you did/said, not to tell anyone else but simply to take responsibility.
2006-10-22 08:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the one hand we have you being neurotic and OTT, but on the other hand we have him not having the decency to try and leave a message. And we are looking at someone who has a son, but is not with the mother of the child, so we are tempted to question his ability to maintain a relationship. Was it your first date? Then you are in the wrong, as you should be "cool" after one date, as it means nothing...if it was a 5th or 6th date, then he's in the wrong, and obviously doesn't care much about you.
Either way, dignity is restored and a lesson learnt if you walk away and try again, but next time, don't be so needy!
2006-10-22 08:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help-
You are obsessive
If a guy wanted to call you he would-wether his phone was broken or not-he would have come to your house,work or got a message to you
Wake up,smell the coffee
HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU
2006-10-22 08:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth honesty always works the best.
You suffered through no fault of your own and now you feel guilty.
You shouldn't I'm sure he could have contacted you somehow if he had wanted to..
2006-10-22 08:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by stud200_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to retain some dignity, learn to use punctuation. From what you wrote, you sound like a blathering, desperate idiot.
Why are women so f*cking over-dramatic sometimes?
2006-10-22 08:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how about just "ok sorry. just worried about u". he'll understand. cant really see much of a problem.
just a couple of things: couldnt u ring his mobile (after he didnt answer & before u found out it was bust) or doesnt he have a landline number? or do you know where he lives (visit him)
2006-10-22 08:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Babe, don't think it is you that should need to apologise here!!!, not getting a good vibe about him. Take care.
2006-10-22 10:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by learned_old_sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him youre sorry but that you were worried about him and just didnt know how to react..im sure he would understand..otherwise just dont you know sweat him..
2006-10-22 08:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you was concerned for his welbeing and what did he expect? he should be more worried if you wasnt bothered.
2006-10-22 08:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋