well should i? the guy is cute and sexy, but i dont just want a one night stand. but then again i dont want him to think im not interested. what should i do?
2006-10-22 08:27:26 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are plenty ofd ways to show him youre interested like telling him you are..if you sleep with him on the first date you risk the chance of a relationship ,,i think a guy prefers for the girl to make him wait for it cus it shows him she is not interested in only sex she wnts to genuinely get to know him and vice versa..if you sleep with him he would of gotten what he might of wanted in the first place and move on...if he is interested in getting to knw you rather than get into your pants then he will not care ifd you dont sleep with him..but if he insists in sleeping with you thenh you know he is only looking for that booty call..so dont..unless you want tht kind of relationship which in that case..hey go for yours..
2006-10-22 08:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a song that has lyrics
"Does her dad own a brewery or does she f*** on first date"
It sort of depicts the ideal woman from a drinkers point of view, not that I'm a drinker but I'm aware of the song, which is a comedy song before anybody gets too serious!!??!
Not that it helps or means anything I just thought I would share it with you.
As for sex on a first date, the only time I would recomend it to you was if by that stage you are certain of there not being a long term relationship and you just want to have some fun.
If you like him enough for a relationship you will take things slowly and carefully. This is not so he respects you or in some way you win his respect, he should respect you anyway regardless of sex or not. More so that you build up your passions and flame so that when you do have it, you'll be committed to each other and it will be like an explosion.
By the way NEVER, NEVER hold back sex as a form of manipulation like some of the young ladies on here have suggested! Manipulation is mostly about gaining power over people for selfish or negative reasons. It's easy to say but concentrate on doing positive things to create a positive outcome rather than negative things to avoid a negative outcome.
2006-10-22 09:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first dates r 2 see if he's the right 1, not matter how cute or sexy he is u DON'T sleep with him on the first date.
2006-10-22 08:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever sleep with a man on the first night. You want him to know your interested, than tell him. Sleeping on the first nite is just asking for the nicknamed loose.Real guys want a girl who isnt loose.
2006-10-22 08:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't want a one night stand, why are you even considering getting busy on the first date? The obvious answer is no. Even if he thought of you as girlfriend material, after you sleep with him, he'll find that your panties slid off a little too easy to be long term, and he'll classify you as just what you want to avoid: the one night stand.
2006-10-22 08:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a guy. dont have sex on the first date. let him kiss you. but dont have sex. he might think you are a one night stand, depending on what kind of guy he is. dont be too clingy either. call the next day after but not the morning after. like the afternoon or night. but on your date. go to a club and make sure its known that you are very interested
2006-10-22 08:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by thatguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! just tell him you are interested in him, trust me if you put out on the first date he will not call you again, you will just have been an easy lay, tell him that you want to see him again and how sexy you think he is etc, don't do it you will sooo regret it hun!
2006-10-22 12:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont sleep with a guy on a first date. He will no doubt lose his respect for you. Believe it or not guys like women who can keep them guessing. Get his attention another way like telling him all the interesting things about yourself. Let him know what kind of person you are by getting to know him on the first date not by sleeping with him.
2006-10-22 08:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by williesgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok my step daughter always sleep with them on the first date and she rarely keeps a guy interest for more than 2 weeks and her first child she can not tell you who the daddy is and she was 17 when she had him..wait atleast a month before you take that step and if you have never slept with anyone before than wait longer and make sure there is love and respect in the realionship and for god sake get on the pill
2006-10-22 09:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you did, he may think of it as a 1 night stand. Tell him you are interested and leave it for a few weeks. If he likes you, he'll wait
2006-10-22 08:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋