There's a guy that i really like ,but he's in the states.We really connected and i think he might be my soulmate.The problem is i live in the caribbean and he's in the states.He wants a long distance relationship but i really don't think i can handle that, but i really love him.What should i do?
2006-10-22 08:14:05 · 14 answers · asked by LaToya T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have met him before on couple occasions.
2006-10-22 08:50:04 · update #1
True love knows no boundaries. If you can't handle a long distance relationship, then maybe you could be just friends until you come together.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-10-22 08:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It's really not worth the headache and heartache. I don't know how long you two have professed your love for eachother, but unless it's been years then there is a good change that he or you may meet someone on your home turf and then move on.
Look, there are too many people in this world that come in and out of our lives each day. The temptation is always present to give someone new an opportunity to introduce themselves into our lives.
The longer you are apart the weaker your bond become until it's just not there anylonger.
I spent two years in a long distance relationship, but I was able to see her each weekend. Unfortunetly we both grew apart during the times we weren't together. It's not a bad thing, it's just life. We all grow and learn something new about ourselves from each new person we meet.
I've thought I met my soul mate a few times and each knew women I fell in love with was an even better match than the last one. That's because I learned more about myself from one love to the next and I was able to make a better decision about who would be good for me.
Distance and time will eventually kill any relationship. You will meet many people in your life that you'll swear in your soul mate, but just remember that there is no perfect match in this world. It's all about making the best decision with the information you know about yourself and works best for you.
Good Luck...I hope things work out for you.
2006-10-22 08:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jerrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie if u don't think u can handle it then i say "no" why put urself in a situation where u'll most likely end up being hurt, the feeling of lonlieness when the person u luv isin't around to hold u and touch u really sux .
maybe if one or the other is able to relocate now or in the futue it could work if those aren't ur plans then babe save urself the heartache.
just enjoy what u have now
good luck
2006-10-22 08:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, go for it! Otherwise don't. He seems to really like you too. otherwise he wouldn.t want a long distance relationship. And you should be able to handle it if you really love him. If you think you can't it's not love. Maybe you just like him alot. Since you really seem to love this guy, go ahead and ask him out. It'll be worth the risk if it turns out ok. Besides i think you should give your love a try without regretting not askin out later.
2006-10-22 08:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by greek_myth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the distance that's hard, its having the time to put into the relationship. if both u and he feel that u love eachother enough to do this, i say go for it. just make sure that u know its possible that it might not work out
2006-10-22 08:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kath <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, have you ever met him face to face? Spent time with him offline? Anyone can be loveable over the internet sweetie. You should really think it through.
2006-10-22 08:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Neese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants a long distance relationship, then chances are
he isn't going to be happy if you go to the states. I'd be
willing to bet he's a married man.
2006-10-22 08:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know better than us what you can handle,
don't you?
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LaToya, I believe that I've met 2 soul mates in my life so far.
and in each I wanted and still do want to be with a soul mate and I went for that.... so did she...
we attempted to remain together,,,
Events, bigger than both of us, caused us to remain apart.
so,,
Just like before I met a soul mate, in this lifetime, we were not together,,,
and,,
Just because I meet someone that is my soul mate does not mean that we can remain together, after that meeting,,,
does it?
.
.
2006-10-22 08:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You Really Love Him Go For It...If it's just a high school crush then..don't =)
2006-10-22 08:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy Chocolate Anime Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart. U'll regret it if you dont take the risk now. But u wont regret a lot if you did take the risk as your heart says so.
2006-10-22 08:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by AlvaDaGansta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋