I really like my guy friend. We only started talking like a month ago, but we are already really close (he considers me one of his few REAL friends and he is mine). He is a huge flirt, though. Especially to this one girl. She will sit in the hall on his lap and they'll chat and flirt. He gives her public attention, but in more private moments pays attention to me. We will lock eyes and have an intense, deep, soulful, understanding moments. I think he feels the intensity too. It's happened several times and he will sometimes stop by me and look deep into my eyes....even when he is w/ his friends. It's really powerful. We can totally relate to eachother.
We havent really done anything outside of school except talking for an hr privately at one football game and hanging out for a while at another. I'd die for him. He told me he likes a lot of girls, including the one he publicly flirts with. Could I be one of them? What should I do?Does he already like me? Good advice appreciated.Thanx
2006-10-22 08:07:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah he likes you. This is school stuff though so he's not a player. He's just shopping for the right one. I think he and you know its you. You need to sit in his lap in the hall and do everything this other girl is doing, because she WILL steal him away from you before you have a clue that it has even happened. Shyness won't work here! Break out of your comfort zone and attack! No sex to get what you want though!
2006-10-22 08:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he likes alot of girls, it's probably a hint that he dosen't want a relationship, if you value your friendship then dating him is not a good idea, if things go bad usualy so does that tresured freindship. But then again life is a gamble! If you like him and you're good friends, tell him how you feel, It sure sounds like he likes you, but if he starts seeing you, is it going to bother you that he's so flirty with others? Have you talked to him about if he filrts when in a relationship? I think you should tell him you like him and see what happens next, this way you have no regrets, atleast he had the chance if he didn't take it that's his fault! Good luck.
2006-10-22 08:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a guys point of view it sounds like he is a big flirt that is looking to get some action. you see men take different approaches to different woman the woman he flirts with in public he feels he can do that with her . and you its more of a deep loving flirt because that's how you are he will adapted to woman to try to get some good luck watch out with this guy. PS if he really liked you hes whole attention would be you good luck from a mans point of view.
2006-10-22 08:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by whynot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd die for a guy that publicly flirts with lots of girls? Are you insane? You do need advice...from a professional, not from anyone here on Yahoo Answers.
2006-10-22 08:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he isn't interested in anything other than beings friends with you. Even if he was, he doesn't really sound like the trustworthy or devoted type.
I think you are simply infatuated with him and are thus overlooking his flaws. Id suggest you not attempt to pursue anything beyond friendship, as im sure it will not end well and you will regret it
2006-10-22 08:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by erature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tel you that he really likes you but unfortunately he's just playing the field and planting lots of seeds. Your only chance is to talk to him and tell him specifically how you feel and ask him how he feels, it's risky but you gotta make up your mind about whether or not he's worth it to you. Best of luck!
2006-10-22 08:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Pants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol he's a player. No guy can like a lot of girls unless he's confused. Don't waste your time on him. You'll just get hurt and feel like an idiot. Don't say I told you so. move on!!!
peace out!
2006-10-22 08:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by what_it_do? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes a lot of girls as he says, I would suggest staying away from him or you could get hurt.
2006-10-22 08:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is letting you know that he is not going to be a guy who modifies his behavior for his best girl. He might grow out of it. Be careful and keep talking.
2006-10-22 08:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋