i think im either a lesbian or bisexual...but i dont know if it could just be because im wanting to experiement or something. i catch myself looking at girls a lot, & at first i thought it was just because i was comparing myself to them, but then when i kissed a girl, i knew i really like girls. is this wrong? im so confused.
2006-10-22 08:06:37 · 26 answers · asked by x_sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
[[im 14 years old, by the way.]]
2006-10-22 08:14:21 · update #1
I think if girls is whats you like then so be it, as long as that's what makes you happy... Some might say its wrong , but they don't walk in your shoes, its your life live it the way you want ... Your the only one that knows what you want , I can understand lesbians.... only a women knows what women want, men are so clueless. I like men my self but have been curious myself , about being with another girl .. well anyhow good luck to ya
2006-10-22 08:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sheena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with it. Good for you.
However, seen as your only 14 and still in school I wouldnt really tell any of your mates unless you know you can trust them, because they might think you fancy them just because you like girls, they wont have the maturity to handle it.
In your teens its a time for experimenting, so dont give up on boys just yet, keep your options open.
Be proud of who you are its your life to live and you should do it the way you want to!
2006-10-22 08:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its called a taboo . you wemon are beautiful and soft creatures and useing these asspects on each other can be confuseing . us men are hard and masculine creatures and wemon are naturally attracted to this by nature . but we are all men and wemon just human and if you focus on wemon then youll wind up with one as your attractant and your lions will desire wemon rather than men and with time youll come to ignore all men and thus your gay . dont let it bother you its normal . just be smart enough to investagate the male sex before you decide on being gay or not . your being confused tells me your not gay here but rather just haveing trouble with girls natural attractiveness. mens side of the coin can be just as powerful if you give it a chance here . in the end you must decide here but i dont belieave gay people are born that way . i belieave majority just take the plunge and never look back then use that as reason . either way your normal just be smart about your choices what ever they are .
2006-10-22 08:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not wrong
you may want to experience and try new things if you enjoyed kissing a female than go for it you are not doing anything wrong
2006-10-22 08:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Melody-Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with your personal sexual feelings. You aren't "dirty" because you like women or if you like men. Those that think you are, are allowed to have an opinion. However, that is their opinion and their own moral reasoning. But because you like women, doesn't make you any less of a person to be loved or liked. I hope this helps you.
2006-10-22 08:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by intimateencounterparties 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong. What is difficult still is that we still have many in our society that claim it is bad. But in all truth, no. You do what makes you happy. If you are not hurting anyone, nobody is hurting you, you are experiencing joy...then you are not creating chaos. It's nobody's business anyway. Follow what you feel is right for you. Ignore judgement. All that is when people judge is simply ignorance, and it's human nature. Don't let it rule you. :)
2006-10-22 08:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be confused.......experiment. You have to know what and who you like or you'll walk the earth trying to be someone your not.
Believe me, its not fun pretending to be someone your no. YOU WILL NOT LIKE YOURSELF.
If you like women, you like women. Why wouldnt you like women?!! They smell good (The majority of them), look good, taste......well you get the picture.
Women are beautiful. Its human nature to love beauty.
But you need to solve this "Inner conflict" within yourself and decide if your going to be YOU, or if your going to let others dictate who you are.
Get to know who you are, and experiment. You could be going through a phase (These things happens you know?). You may see something happening down there that completely turns you off!! I doubt it though.
gudluk, and remember: be true to yourself!!
2006-10-22 08:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good thing honey bunch. Chill out and learn some self control.
2016-05-21 22:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help!
Experimentation happens but get help...
Don't think bad of yourself
Just get help.
If you are under the age of consent talk to your parents or legal guardians...
God did not make woman to be with woman
or man to be with man....
But I am not your judge only God is your judge
you have to follow your conscience..
Let your conscience be your judge....
But do not hate youself because others do not understand your situation....You are loved...
God loves you....He loved you enough to die on the cross for you to give you life everylasting....God bless child...
2006-10-22 08:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by TRUE GRIT 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with it at all. There are lots of females that are interested in females. I am. Its normal. Don't be ashamed of your sexuality.
2006-10-22 08:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋