I went to a dance recently and my friend kept asking me if I was going with anyone, hr knew I wasn't going with anyone. Then he kep asking me to dance and sing with him and told I him "No" the first 2 times and the third I agreed, then later I went to go hang out with another friend and he seems mad/jealous because I hung out with my other friend and not him. We are best friends and seems like he wants to be more than friend. Everyone thinks we are going out and that we make a cute couple. Am I right on the way he is showing his feelings for me or something else? Please NO rude comments.
Also when ever ppl try to ask him if he likes me he always say no, but he always smiles and purposly bumps me in the hall ways @ school and at the dance. Is he lieing because he really means he doesn't like me or to cover up feelings?
2006-10-22 07:57:37 · 2 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he didn't like you, he wouldn't think twice about you. If he seems to be always around you and trying to initiate conversation and interested in what you are doing (like talking to other guys) then you are definitely on his mind... it's only logical.
At your age (I assume you are a teenager or something) I think that people can act strange when they like each other. I don't really know how to relate to that anymore, but from a more adult perspective, it seems that you should just ask him or talk about it... or if you like him, make it know that you like him back and then he might be more comfortable and confident about making it known to you that he likes you. Then you can be a couple... if that is what you want.
If you don't want to be more than friends with him, you need to let that be known and you need to tell him directly and clearly. It would be mean for him to find out through someone else, AND if you are not clear, he won't understand it... because boys are dense. They don't get hurt the way girls do... what hurts them worse than being rejected, is being strung around for ages... they'd rather the direct answer, yes or no, and have it be clear and then they can start getting over it.
Good luck!
2006-10-22 08:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to read too much into his actions...your just a friend and thats it.....wouldnt u be jealous if your friend ran over to someone else and dumped u at a dance? i would, maybe you were the only person he was really close to there and u ditched him, thats kinda like sayin," ok ive got other ppl here so i dont need u anymore ,i`ll c u in school..."
2006-10-22 15:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋