I got a text message saying....... "I want to date you but I dont want to get to serious,talking---Non verbal goodbyes"..what is a non verbal goodbye?hes going to the marines in Jan.thats why he doest want to get serious
2006-10-22 07:50:43 · 8 answers · asked by tracy c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
non verbay goodbye is a KISS
He doesn't want to get serious because he is going over seas and he knows that would be difficult for both of you. And while away he or you should be free do date whoever you want.
He will be gone a lot and best that he isn't having to worry about a girl back home.
Pease honor his request. He is being mature and wise.
If you can do this for him...no kisses or getting serious he will see you as a mature wonderful girl and he will most likely care more for you in the long run.
There is nothing worse then a guy going over seas and keephimself for one girl and then he cheats or he comes home and she has had several guys in her life by the time he comes back. I reallyl think he is being very reasonable and wise.
Give him this gift. The man is going to serve our country and he should be honored and respected for being a Man.
He sounds like a great guy to me. He couild be taking advantage of you before he goes. He respects you and himself enough to not start something up that will leave you both hurt and lonely.
Who known... if you do this for him, in the long run, you just might be the girl for him.
But, please don't stop dateing when he is gone because he could come back with a bride.
Just be a good friend to him, You must be very special for him to want to see you before he leaves.
2006-10-22 08:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None verbal means he is maybe waving goodbye and not saying it.
2006-10-22 14:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by johnnysmit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's going to the marines then don't get mixed up in that.
2006-10-22 14:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, what the second guy said. if his ging to the marines, don't get involved. and i don't think it matters what he said if he's gonna go. but if its really bothering just ask him directly.
2006-10-22 14:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by godfathermock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, he's wanting laid before he goes off to be a Marine.
He wants no ties, he's up front and being honest.
2006-10-22 14:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T EVER FL
IRT unless you are willing.............to get hurt and waste your time...this guy only wants ONE thing and NO strings attached...so hey, if you want "it" then give him some...but if you don't then say 'austa lavista, baby" NOW!!!
2006-10-22 14:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he meant
2006-10-22 14:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ASK him IN PERSON?????
2006-10-22 14:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋