well i have been in two relationships in the past and in both i got really hurt now ive found someone who has maked me feel like if i was dating for the first time but im afraid of getting hurt again, that it may be just wanting to play with me any advice?
2006-10-22 07:44:39 · 9 answers · asked by sabin_f5 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can never fully recover until you put yourself out there.
Go ahead. Push forward. & Good Luck.
2006-10-22 07:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by bakergrl5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing out your future before it happens...and all of it is based on past. This is not reality. To be able to face your delima, you clear the fears from your mind and start with a clean slate. When you let fear own you, you are blocking great possibilities. What you are literally doing is setting yourself up for another failure. Forgive the past, and move on. It takes a warrior to do this, but it can be accomplished. Trust me, you'll be okay. If for some reason the relationship doesn't work out, then it simply doesn't. Don't put meaning to it. People come and go in our lives, and if it was meant for you to find your life mate, it will happen. The ones previously obviously were not your match. Okay? Look at it that way, but by all means don't shut your future down by the meanings you created from past. Good luck, buddy. :)
2006-10-22 14:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not compare one relationship with another one. Your past experience is no guide to your present one. Each one is different. So... enjoy... you might find that the thing that was annoying for the last one may be the thing that makes the new relationship.
Don't worry so much... enjoy... and be yourself.
2006-10-22 14:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you never try you will never know. i feel that you should put yourself out there and try. If you don't you may miss the once the one chance for true love. Take chances,,,,,,,,,,,,,,life's too short to be alone, and don't forget to learn from your mistakes.
good luck
2006-10-22 14:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by mother of 7! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her lead you if you truly trust you.she might the 1 who will never hurt you and make you forget your past
2006-10-22 14:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't live in the past. not everyone is going to hurt you. it's a chance you have to take.
2006-10-22 14:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be with someone that cares for you and you can tell if that girl wants to be with you or not
2006-10-22 14:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not gona get eney wair if your to skaird to go.
shes good for you be good for her and enjoy your life
2006-10-22 14:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by loboe27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart says
2006-10-23 14:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by EL GANGSTA. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋