This might sound dumb, but i really need help. I am having a halloween party on saturday. My bf might come but he has a soccer game. If he loses then he can come, but i dont think he will be happy. But if he wins, then he cannot come because his team always has a celebration party, but ima be sad. So i dont know which one i should be? Either be sad, or have him sad. I think i rather have myself sad than him. Is that ok, or am i just...wrong?
2006-10-22 07:44:38 · 16 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a man that will be happy when he makes you happy.
2006-10-22 07:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Steve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can change the time or day of the party. If not then, just have some hope!!!!!!! If he comes and loses his game, maybe a party is what he needs to cheer him up.Also if he comes, he will need some more cheering up so you can try and make him happy. If he wins, you should feel happy for him!!! He won't get to go to your party but he will be happy and so will you with your other friends, then maybe after his celebration party and your halloween party maybe you guys can meet each other later on a different day and do something together.
2006-10-22 14:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by cutfoxy08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you want your bf to win and be happy. and you should be happy for him. Your party will be just fine without him, and you will have a great time. If he loses, let him decide if he feels like going to your halloween party, he may not be in a good enough mood to enjoy it, if he does come, good maybe it will take his mind off of it.
2006-10-22 14:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you basing your life around what some guy thinks? Why can't the soccer team come to your party for their celebration? What is the problem?
2006-10-22 14:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your party! Be happy if he wins, and make your party something everyone talks about for months!
You both can celebrate your successful events the next weekend!!!!
2006-10-22 14:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by LucyLinnae M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl enjoy the party if he loses or wins his game let him be as long u haven fun cus i play soccer yea sometimes we lose yea i be feelin down all i do keep my head up and do my best to the next game
2006-10-22 14:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥yessy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont be sad if he wins be happy for him or u can always postpon the party till the next day
2006-10-22 14:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by Danny_Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his team wins, then you should be happy for him. Maybe you can talk him into going to your party as opposed to the victoy celebration. I would try that if I were you, hopefuly he'll comply with your request.
Good Luck.
2006-10-22 14:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though he cant be with you the night of his party you should be happy for him that he is happy. that is what relationships are all about regardless if he cant coome he will be happy that he won that should be more important than anything. there are other holidays so enjoy them and try to spend time with him after the celebration
2006-10-22 14:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by evilbitch92482 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be plenty more halloween parties.... just enjoy your self!
personally I would be wanting him to win so that he is happy.
2006-10-22 14:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by millibb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋