My first two-timer, so don't trip...
Guy loves girl. Girl loves guy. Very much. Guy has an issue he wants to resolve. Tells girl he loves her; wants to be with her, always will. Feels like he needs to resolve issue before pursuing relationship with girl again. Girl doesn't want to break up, but feels like there is no other choice. Girl makes it known that she is there for guy; that she wants him in her life. Girl and guy decide to chill out for a while, but there is no clearly defined "goodbye", or that is, it is not known whether this time off will be for forever. Both girl and guy would ideally like to be together for life, but there are outside influcences keeping this from happening at the moment. Girl and guy are both sad, and walk away crying. Does this sound like something with a future, or should girl and guy chalk this one up to an experience? Girl is certain guy is not just stringing her, or "keeping his options open" (i.e. wanting to be with someone else).
2006-10-22 07:31:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl knows specifically what the issue is, and she is aware of the reason, so guy is not keeping anything from her - he never has.
2006-10-22 07:32:28 · update #1
Wow, I found that kinda hard to follow, but anyways. If he really has been honest with you, then what exactly is the issue. Outside forces will always come in to destroy what you have going on. Maybe a break is necessary to test the waters, if you both find that there is no else better for each other than go for it. I firmly believe that if it was meant to be than it will be. I'm not sure if I helped any but I tried. Good Luck.
2006-10-22 07:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Amata555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case it depends on what the issue is . If he is married and wants to resolve this before going ahead with you . This is the right thing to do . The thing is when a situation comes up like this the guy almost always tells the other party (that being you) he is confused . That he needs time to take care of busyness . That leaves you not knowing what will happen next . Give him a time frame . If he loves you as much as he says he does he will resolve the problem as fast as he can . Give him enough time . Tell him you give him six months or a year . That in it self is fair enough time to get things squared away . No matter what the issue is . I can see that both of you are doing the right thing by giving it time .
2006-10-22 14:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. There could be a future. A similar situation happened to a friend of mine. She and a guy broke up although neither wanted to, then guy got in car accident and first person he called was the girl. Been together ever since (now happily married with one daughter).
2006-10-22 14:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by fordkid14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi well really nobody can decide your relationship for you only you can you have to do what your heart tells you. i know right now doesnt seem like things are going to work but you never know like they say you let something go and it comes back it was meant to be. just give him his space that he needs. but dont distant yourself to much otherwise he will think that you dont care. let hin know that you will be there for him, but if there are people getting involved in your relationship you both need to tell them to back off because otherwise you guys will be dealing with it for the rest of your guys life on again off again when someone has a problem you guys are the one that made the relationship not everyone around you. well you can write me direct if you need to talk good luck
2006-10-22 14:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by evilbitch92482 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to work this hard to keep a relationship going. Sounds like guy and girl should move on. Separately.
2006-10-22 14:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl all those liitle games that guy is playin... Girl needs to tell guy that she don't want to play no more and that guy needs to make his mind on what he wanna do with this relationship. If he still just wanna keep his "options open" then girl needs to bounce
2006-10-22 14:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ms_Apple_Bttmz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell the person you want to be with that you want to be with them!! that should make them think about being with you!! and tell tham why you want to be with them! and that you will not live without them! make sure you choose the right guy...but don't break their heart in a week 'cause u get tied of them..because if you ever want them back then they won't believe you.
2006-10-22 14:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by danimcnally_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're to complicated. You sound like a maniac. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone as overbearing as you.
2006-10-22 14:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u love eachother u'll get bk 2gther bt it dnt seem lik u do if ur walkin away
2006-10-22 14:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jade E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy is just being dramatic..let him solve his issues and i bet he'll ask the girl back...
2006-10-22 14:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋