Hi, I am a high-school student. I have known this girl for 3 months and we have been really good friends. Sometimes, we flirted and we even hung out. It was the best night. However, my friends and other ppl have been tellin me that she is a player and that she is a total flirt. I have seen her flirt with other guys. So like last week, I decided to call her and say that I like her as more than a friend and that I know that she only thinks of me as a friend so we should stop hanging out. Then she told me that I should not "assume" anything and she was like "You think you know me?" and she got pissed and hung up on me. But yesterday, we decided to talk things over and hung out like nothing happened.
(I am a freakin dumbass)Also, she pretended that she didn't hear
"I like you as more than just a friend" part.
Look guyz and girls. I know that she is a player so I have to stay away from her. What is a good way to stay away from the girl who gives me "hopes" once a while?
2006-10-22 06:58:01 · 16 answers · asked by confuzzedd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not a friend. What she is doing is keeping you around as a boyfriend in reserve. When someone better isn't around, she'll call in your option. Until then, she will have you do things a boyfriend does but will call you a friend and not have sex with you. Mostly, your function is to reassure her that she is desireable. This is bad behavior from a woman and you should definitely not put up with it (just break off contact with her). It is also a sign that she is not a good woman. There are alot of behaviors that women who are sick in the head engage in that form a nonstop pattern. This is one of them. And where there is one, there are more.
Step one of handling women is discriminating between the normal ones and the losers. Only give normal women the time of day. Loser women should be persona non grata.
2006-10-22 07:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how you feel about this, but it has worked for m ein the past. What I like to do is hang out with my other female friends so that I can realize that there are other cool girls out there (not saying you need to try and date one of them). Sometimes, normal girls who aren't flirts or players make you understand or realize that what you really want is a girl who is totally into you not the attention. So, start hanging out with other girls, see how that works for a bit. Who knows, she may even get jealous and either let you know how she truly feels or disengage completely, which wouldn't be a bad thing if she isn't the right girl for you. Good luck bud!
2006-10-22 14:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Raijin78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well bud. You opened the door when you told her you liked her as more than a friend, then you turned around and slammed the door right in her face when you told her you should stop seeing each other. I really do have to agree with you, you are a "dumbass", LOL If you do like her, you might want to try a better approach.... Some people just like to talk crap, form your own opinions about her.
2006-10-22 14:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bikerbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to stay away from her. Stop calling her, stop hanging out with her, and find a girlfriend that you can trust. It's a cold way to put it, but it's the truth.
2006-10-22 14:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Phil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get a girlfriend..dtop having any conversation with her ..ignore her she'll go crazy ..don't call her anymore ..don't say Hi..she'll keep wondering what happened ..then maybe there will come the conversation..at that time maybe she won't be deaf to hear " like you as more than just a friend" part..
IGNORE HER ..
2006-10-22 14:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not playing you, she's just playing. Unfortunately, it's always the good guys like yourself that these girls take for granted. My advice would be to distance yourself, flirt with other girls and I bet you she will come around. Good luck :)
2006-10-22 14:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by reaski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don;t try to avoid her, when you see her, just say Hi and pretend you have things on your mind and you are on your way to do something. Just pretend like you are completely over her and you don't care if she likes you or not. Girls want what they can't have
2006-10-22 14:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha dude shes a player..either get to her level and quit being childish, or be the typical emo looser in your high school...all high school girls want something out of high school. someone to man handle them correctly.... she might be into greater bigger things...know your level...and if u wanna go beyond, then pump yourself up and get your motiviation sky high..and talk to her and treat her like a grown *** man instead of a child...dont say anything more to her on the phone...talk to her 1 on 1 go out with her...relationships are not handled over the phone playa
2006-10-22 14:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by jmol72001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you are right to stay away from her since she seems to enjoy toying with you and playing "mind games" with you. Don't let her "rent space in your head" and start focusing on some other more worthy girls who would really appreciate you...
2006-10-22 14:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is to look out for a new girl (sorry if write it not so good, i need to fresh up my English *grins*), if she's playing with you and you realy want to go "steady" (i hope iuse the good words), just look for another girl/woman.
2006-10-22 14:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by erikje1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋