i have been hanging out with a new group of friends who let me be bie and understand it but in doing so i have ignored my old best friend and my old friends really hurt her now shes all ur my only true friend im going to only hang out with u and be supper cristion(i have no religon)i bring up bie ness she says it stuped and should be stamped out then huggies me and says im glad i have at least one real friend what can i do?
2006-10-22 06:51:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
DO NOT LISTEN to people telling you that homosexuality is "a sin". First of all they don't actually understand the Bible passages they love so much and secondly they're really just pushing their own personal issues onto you. Don't let them.
Homosexuality is a normal, natural sexual orientation and you shouldn't be ashamed of it even if your "true" best friend is being passive aggressive about the issue. If your "best" friend is going to hate you for being a certain way and if being that way isn't wrong (being bisexual isn't wrong) then you need to have a talk with her.
It really sounds like she's manipulating you, honestly. She may not be, she may just be clingy and homophobic, but it sounds like she knows what's going on and is trying to manipulate you to deny a certain part of yourself so that she can feel more comfortable around you. If so, stop it now. Stop it by telling her. Stop it by letting her hang with your friends and asking her firmly to be polite and let everyone be themselves so that she can see what nice people they are. Exposure is the surest offense against homophobia.
2006-10-22 07:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 02:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell first! Homosexuality is a chioce and a sin so I guess I agree with your friend who ignores you. She's hoping you change your ways. again it's your chioce and not a birth defect and not born gay etc. You act on it and you like it so you do it. One day you chose to like it, it wasn't always there either. Is it the only way you feel special by people? Does the spotlight of being talked about excite you? I think it does.
2006-10-22 06:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Baby girl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
So let me see if I've got this right: she wants to feed you a Christian supper and then put your in Huggies? She doesn't sound like too focused of a friend to me!
2006-10-22 07:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by crowbird_52 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
put it out there--tell her, and don't back down--if she can't accept you, she's not your friend, and if ti takes pushing all her friends away for her to realize that intolerance is not the way of a true christian, so be it, you will have actually done her a favor
2006-10-22 06:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although being a homosexual is sinning against God, God loves you not the sin. He loved you so much he gave his only son so you could be saved. God loves you...accept Jesus as your personal Saviour today. John 3:16, Romans 10:9, Romans 3:23.
2006-10-22 06:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by ready4home 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Taking a chance to get you.
2006-10-22 06:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Pitambri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are messed up. Give yourself time to figure out who and what you are.
2006-10-22 06:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so come from the closet and see tha white light and be enlighten
2006-10-22 06:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused
2006-10-22 07:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by revieskid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋