Hypothetical question here, okay?

Question

Okay, here's the deal. This is a two part question, and anyone answering has to promise that they won't insult me, etc.
Part one: I know a girl who claims to be a lesbian, and she's kind of pretty. No, I do not want to go out with her, I just want to know if it would be odd for me to have her as a friend. I don't find it weird, I just want to know if anyone else would find it so.
Part Two: This is entirely hypothetical. IF I were to ask her out on a sort of date (like watching a movie, etc.), but not like a DATE, would you think that anyone would find that odd? I just want to know, because if I end up doing this, I don't want to have people hounding me because what I do. I already get that enough as it is on my own, and I don't want to drag anyone else into it.
Answer away, but remember that the second part is ENTIRELY hypothetical.

Just so everyone knows, especially unique4some, I am not asking the second part because I think it's weird. I think that's perfectly normal. I just don't want people hounding me about it, and I DEFINETELY don't want to do it if it might end up where she gets hurt that way. I've seen it happpen before, and I don't want to do that to someone.

Anonymous, I wasn't thinking about asking her out, I was thinking about maybe possibly doing something together. You go to movies with your friends, don't you?

By the way, I'm straight.

Answer 1

Dude, if you dont change the way you think soon, your gonna have a lot of problems in life.

Dont pick and choose your friends by what others will think. You cant do that because you loose out on a lot of friendships that way.

Who cares what folks think when it comes to what you and another female does. Whether she's lez or not, it doesnt matter. The only thing that matters is how you two feel about each other.

Something sounds funny about your question though. Are you straight? I dont know, thats another discussion. I know that the only problem you'd probably have is.....controlling your thoughts....if your straight because.....assuming your straight because never mentioned your sexual preference.

Thinking of her just as a "Friend" will be hard to do. She's made up her mind that she's gay so there will be no chance for you two....possibly.

But going back, dont let others define your friendship w/ her. You two could have the best friendship in the world as long as you care for each other the way friends should.

gudluk dude!!!!

Answer 2

She's a buddy. undeniable and straightforward. It isn't extraordinary so that you'll be acquaintances consisting of her. what number woman are acquaintances with gay adult males? As for going and seeing a movie or having lunch acquaintances do this. you actually shouldn't difficulty about what others will imagine. in case you attempt to make anybody satisfied, you'll not in any respect sense free. do not try so demanding to thrill anybody. in case you want her as a buddy and comprehend you would have relaxing miraculous out consisting of her, there is no longer something incorrect with it because, properly, you're satisfied and having relaxing. If someone nags you about it, enable them comprehend she doesn't nag you about each and every thing unlike some acquaintances.

Answer 3

Her sexuality should not stop you from being her friend and doing things with her. They are still human beings and are quite friendly. I have a friend that's gay and when we hang out together we have fun. Who cares what others may think, people can be so cruel no matter what the situation may be. She might turn out to be the best friend you may ever have.

Answer 4

I think it is perfectly acceptable to have her as a friend. And if you can go to the movies with your guy friends why not her? who cares if it is odd, but I don't think anyone would think that, I wouldn't. If anyone does hound you tell them to bug off. its your life not theirs

Answer 5

Part one we choose our friends not because of their sexuality, but because we work and play well together. and if she is your friend why not invite her to a movie, if you worry about what people think and say , you will never be friends, You are an adult act like one

Answer 6

In this world, you can do what you want, and say to hell with idiots, or you can let them rule your life, and stay on their good side. Your friend will not change her romantic interest in women, and as long as you harbor no notion of changing that you can be friends with anyone you enjoy being with. If anyone says anything about it, well, you aren't under obligation to please the world.

Answer 7

Having her as a friend is not wierd. You have things in common, right? Going out alone with her no matter what you call it probably won't work.

Answer 8

Everyone chooses their friends for various reasons. And it's no one's business. As for spending time with someone, it's the same. It's between those individuals, and not anyone else's concern. So do whatever you both feel comfortable with. And not to worry about the thinking/opinions of others. Please remember that it's IMPOSSIBLE to please EVERYONE, ALL of the time.

Answer 9

Dude a date is a date ...and take my advice dont care what others think u will ruin your life over it..

Answer 10

hey if you want to have a good friendship with this person then go for it and with this friendship you can go and do what ever the both of you would like and bring you both a good time .