i do like him so much..i don't want to lose him
how can i reject him with out hurting his feelings ?
2006-10-22 06:17:53 · 10 answers · asked by going-to-light 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that friends like him don't come around that often. And being romantically involved would jeapordize your friendship if things didn't work out.
The thing is, he has probably always been in love with you, but was afraid to tell you how he felt until you guys got close. to me that is decieving. I think it would be hard for you to still trust him, because he has an alterior motive.
Although he is probably just as scared as you are of losing the friendship.
Also tell him that in your life right now you need good friends that you can trust, more than a boyfriend.
2006-10-22 06:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't reject him. If you have feelings towards him, just go with it. You should not reject him only because you fear it would ruin the friendship. But if you are not romantically attracted to him, tell him. I guess the "you're like a brother to me" line would be best here.
2006-10-22 13:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by FrozenCloud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That' s quite a dilemma!! I think you must speak sincerely and frankly to him to clear every misunderstanding. Tell him that to respect and adore his friendship but can 't fall in love with him, because love happens, you can' t force yourself to love. I know it' ll be a bit difficult but you must tell him.
2006-10-22 13:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sent a letter what you think about your friendship with him . If he think you are his best friend then he never come back with Love . Otherwise he leaves you .
2006-10-22 13:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by ||| Romeo Boy ||| 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhh....that's a tough one all you can do is be honest w/him and if he stops being your friend it's his lost not yours because you didn't give him further reason to think that you loved him in that way.
2006-10-22 13:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl im in the same situation im trying to figure out how im going to break up with him without hurting myself
2006-10-22 13:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by courtney n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why reject him? why not try dating first and see if that works? i don't see why you can't date him just because he's your "best friend"--in fact, that's all the more reason you should. try it.
2006-10-22 13:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by jo6769 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u like hin 2. just as a friend though.
If he truly luvs u he will under stand.
2006-10-22 13:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by lemmony-lem-lem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really can't reject a person widout hurting his/her feelings =(
2006-10-22 13:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by L0cA Ch!Ca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kill him, it wil be less painful
2006-10-22 13:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by Richard J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋