I have been dating this man from work for 7 months, he says he really likes me but says that he does not want a relationship. He finishes it and I find later on that he is dating someone else from work and has moved in with her, they are getting married!
2006-10-22 06:16:54 · 22 answers · asked by skyler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That simply means he doesn't like you so, forget about him and get on with your life. You cannot enforce love it comes naturally and you cannot put some thing on nothing, it will fail!. Look for your own guy he is somewhere out there.
2006-10-22 06:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Very sorry to hear of your heartbreak but if this helps you with the pain I must tell you it happens to all of us here. Yes......We have all felt the hurt of a special person stepping out of our lives. He sounds like a good guy due to the fact he says he doesn't want a relationship instead of saying he wants another lady but not you. It's not always easy to tell someone to leave. Just hang in there and Mr Right will come around. I know the pain is still there but your best friend is time. Best to you.
2006-10-22 13:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell yourself how much better you are then him. Works for me. For what he did to you, you got a right to act snobby for a lil bit. Just say stuff like those two can have each other I mean first of all he is a complete ***** he couldn't even be man enough to tell you the truth. So you know what **** that guy you are so much better then him.
Say **** like that even if you don't believe it you will start to and then I give it max a week tell you realize that you are the one who was lucking anough to get him out of your life. It is harsh but saves you from the heart ache. Cuz truth is why you are crying over him he is probably getting laid. It herts but it helps you come to grips and move on . good luck. and sorry for being so ruthless
2006-10-22 13:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to my daughter. She went with the same boy for a long time & he kept telling her the same thing. Then out of the blue he broke up with her, starting dating & got married real fast.
When a man saids he does not want a relationship he means it. Just start looking for someone else yourself.
2006-10-22 13:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by dog lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have to rise above it. I know it hurts and I know it is not easy. I've known a man for ...oh something like 14 years whom I love dearly....still. We used to be a bit of an item for something like 5 years and I hoped when he came to work at the same place as I do that things might progress. That wasn't to be because he has a senior position and I'm just a pleb, so knowing my place I kept a low profile. He's moved on to a relationship with woman in the office I sit next too who is higher up the chain than me, not easy for me because I still have a huge amount of affection for him. But, it is not life threatening, he's happy and that counts for more to me than my 'wishful thinking'.
2006-10-22 13:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asa harsh as this is going to sound GET OVER IT... He used u and played u for the last 7 months so it is time to move on...
I am sorry that some men can be such jerks but they are and when we get hurt we are the ones that have to show a better face than we really want to...
2006-10-22 13:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to laugh. Are you from a different country? No one in America says fancy unless your Great Grandma Florence. I'm not making fun of you. I'm sure we say funny things to you too. It is hard to get over a man but life goes on. There are plently of "fish in the sea" as they say. Try to do things to keep him off your mind and you'll probably meet another man in no time. Good luck.
2006-10-22 13:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by SHELTIELUVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow it can be hard to get over from a rejection from a man that you really fancy but if you are a strang person you can get over it..but it wont be easy that's why i don't like to see anyone from work there is one girl i fancy at work but i'm a fraid to get involve with her just in case it doesn't work and i will feel bad about it she's a pretty girl but i learnt that it's not good to date someone from work
2006-10-22 13:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too good for him! I'm sure you are a wonderful woman and he doesn't deserve you. Consider it his loss-and hopefully his wife to be will realize what a jerk she's marrying. You'll find someone much better, and you'll be glad you dont have anything to do with this guy anymore. good luck!
2006-10-22 13:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i say is what a toss$er, just hold your head up high, and be all matter of fact, men don't like clingy women, so just put a line under it and move on, i know its hard,but at least you can move on to someone who really wants you
2006-10-22 13:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋