Ok i have dated this guy three different times...I have broken up with him three different times and i had very good reasons but i still want him now that i am dating another guy. i feel bad dragging him around like this... i dont know if i should get over him by dating other people or should i try to work it out with him? the only thing thats stopping me is that there are things about him that bother me to no end but he has certain things about him that i can get no where else. omg please tell me what to do!
2006-10-22 06:10:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously if you've broken it off with him 3 times, it's NOT going to work the 4th time. Don't keep hurting him by playing with his heart....geez, you might as well drive a stake through his heart. Things about him bother you and you'll never get past that...so i wouldn't get back with him.
Second...Getting over someone isn't easy...But i don't think you should jump into a relationship with a different guy in order to speed up the process.
2006-10-22 06:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you need to sit down with him and tell him certain things he do upset you and he needs to stop. If he feels the need to change those habits then give him another chance. If not move on. Because if you love someone you will change. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship it takes work. But if he loves you and wants you in his life he will change. If not there is always someone waiting in the wind.
2006-10-22 13:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wasn't good enough or there were major problems the first second and third time there will be if there is a fourth time..don't settle for him there is someone out there that is perfect for you..do you have to be dating someone 24/7 to be happy?? never settle for anyone that isn't everything you want..Good Luck in finding the right one but let him go he obviously is dragging you down in someway or another or you wouldn't have been with him off and on for awhile..move on..allow yourself time to be you not who you think he or any other man wants..be yourself,the right relationship will come to you
2006-10-22 13:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could answer you, but I'm also in that situation.... The worst of all is that I think I'm inlove with him. If your heart is still with him you should probably try once more. Don't dump him if he makes a mistake, or does something you don't like... Try to work through it. That's what you are suppose to do if you want a relationship.... I wish you all the best!
2006-10-22 13:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont really like him. He might be a nice guy and treat you well and thats the part that you do like. But if you can't get over the things about him that you don't like, then your not into him.
2006-10-22 13:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by Junoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there are things about him you cannot stand on a date, what makes you think that will be any better, trying to build a relationship?let go and "quit dragging his heart around"
2006-10-22 13:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the guy keep dating him. You need to start making positive decisions.
2006-10-22 13:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't make someone do somthing they don't want to do.
If u truly "luv" him then stick 2 him otherwise move on.
2006-10-22 13:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by lemmony-lem-lem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this isn't something can tell you what to do, you need to figure this one out on your own
2006-10-22 13:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your instincts. if you keep breaking up with him, there must be something inside you that senses it.
2006-10-22 13:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋