it is frustrating! they ALWAYS want sex! i've never been on a date with a guy where i wasn't having to explain why i wasn' t trying to have sex with them. guys, is this the extent that your brains can go to? if so, get over it!
2006-10-22 06:06:04 · 16 answers · asked by Infinite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, their minds can go deeper than that. That's not what I think about on a date. I think about maintaining a great relationship with her so I try my hardest to do whatever it takes. There are guys out there who don't think about having sex after a date. You just have to find the right one.
2006-10-22 06:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So we see you never had good sex. We cant help it but the older we get the more we are able to control the urges. Sex makes the world go around no matter where you go you see or hear sex. You just have to let the guy up front what you want if he cant deal with that shake him to the left. Everyone wants sex it's just a time and place for everything.
2006-10-22 06:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem excruciatingly shallow to me. "and the guys that are interested in having a good relationship wih me are always ugly." ....what's your point? just because they don't have the greatest face doesn't mean you can't date them... try looking beneath the surface. beauty doesn't last forever. you say you hate prejudice, and i'm assuming that you mean you hate prejudice against your race (African American), so you why are you being prejudiced against people who are "not beautiful"? **EDIT**: i understand what you're saying to an extent, that you wouldn't feel the attraction. but to answer your question in a less-hostile manner: i don't think you should settle for second best. but love is going to come when you least expect it, and probably from someone you don't expect it from. for now, just focus on having fun and love will find you eventually with the right guy. and trust me, when it's right, you'll know it.
2016-05-21 22:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of guys so you date? What kind of reputation do you have. Have the guys gotten the idea that you are "easy" from your previous dates? A guy should respect your wishes. You certainly should not have sex on the first date.
2006-10-22 06:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying no is the best thing dont give in!!! if u end up in a relationship and ya didnt have sex so soon there will always be more trust and not to mention respecting yourself is the best thing ..if a guy reaslly likes you he will respect you too and should be happy that your not easy... haveing sex right away is the worst thing to do
2006-10-22 06:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by lilrnkinn942 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With questions like this, one, and that's you, you must stop and look at what it is your doing to make these guys think their goping to get laid!
Is it the way you dress? The way you talk? Your body languauge?
OR your interests in men must be drawing you to all the perverts who only care as deep as their dick will go.
You can change this, they can't.
2006-10-22 06:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We love sex, but....I know if i go out with someone i feel I have a future with, I will not try to have sex right away.
2006-10-22 06:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by Richard J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want 2 be sterotypical but maybe they feel u owe them something because u are on a date.. that happens in most cases because on a date they expect that because they take u out an wine a dine u but u shouldnt have 2 give it up...
2006-10-22 06:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by billy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that men think of sex every 7 seconds? It's probably more frequent than that. Don't be amazed.
2006-10-22 06:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've promised myself and my parents a long time ago to wait until marriage. some guys can't do that.
2006-10-22 06:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by azriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋