I been dating this guy for almost a year. We been doing the whole long distance thing because im in college (2hours away) but during the summer and thru all the times we were able to be together things got more intimate. But lately I havent been having n e interest in going to visit him so my excuse is "im working" although i am... im also partying. I feel guilty but then again hes the type of guy that is controling. its cool sometimes but it get frustrating. He also cries on the phone cuz he misses me (such a turn off) he loves me tho..so much i feel guilty if i was to let him go. he such a sweet guy and very attractive. My secret is... I became a stripper (to pay for school) and I have been dating some other guy. Some Jerry springer material huh?! but i can understand why it all happens now. Now that im in that position. So today the long distance guy is crying on the phone to me cuz he misses me and idk what to do what to say.. i swallow my heart.
2006-10-22 06:03:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow thas something crazy.. 1st off u need 2 tell him that u became a stripper 2 pay for school.. then u need 2 discuss ur unfaithfulness to him.. then u work things out from there..
2006-10-22 06:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by billy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well darlin, you got yourself into a little pickle. Not to worry, the situation can be pulled out of the fire. First of all, you have to do whats right, for you. If you start to worry about everyone else's feelings and how to please them, you will never be happy yourself. Your interest in going to visit the long distance guy has waned, probably because you have another closer guy who is I'm guessing just as attractive, sweet, and ... BONUS! much closer to where you are. So, though it will hurt both of you, tell the LD guy you cant see him anymore, but be truthful about it, and tell him why ... that you have found someone else. You don't have to tell him you are stripping, but you may still want to, so he can be mentally prepared If he ever showed up at the club you work at, otherwise it can be rather awkward.
A buddy of mine in the army had his girl quit on him, saying she was going to move away, seeing each other would become impossible, blah blah blah. We got some time to go home, and I dragged him to a strip club when we hit our hometown. My plan was to have a good time, get him drunk, forget about her, and move on. Well, we got a table right up front, it was early, only a couple other people there. Stacy came out in the second set after we got there. I'll just say, it wasn't a pretty situation.
2006-10-22 13:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kinda need to not string him along..if you think that he is controlling the you need to break to him that your a stripper and why your doing it. then you also need to let him go due to the fact your cheating on him techno and that's not fare to any one and what if he finds out or some thing slips out by mistake your need to find your self and know what you want out of the relationship.... grant it he is two hours away but honey i drive 2 hours for work one way and you need to consider his feelings if he makes a pop up visit to check on you to see if your lying to him....please be very careful being in your profession it is a very dangerous job....and your boy friend might take it to the head and go over board with things and if his is that centered on you than you really need to tell him...
2006-10-22 13:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋