I've been seeing this girl and I love like crazy, but what happened is, I was tryna call her on her mobile the other day and she wouldn't pick up and later on her sister picked up and said she was at work and she left her phone. And when I rang her office, they said she wasn't working that day, and I was suprised.
And then I txtd her phone asking why is she letting her sister lie about where she was. As she wouldn't answer my messages and my calls I started getting mad and I txted a loadz of staff, not horrible staff but just asking why she was bieng like this. And she txtd me later about 6pm saying she was asked to help on some office of which I know and she wouldn't lie about that.
But when I try apologising about the messages I sent to her, she's not responding or picking up my calls and I told her I thought she was ignoring me cause cause I called her office and she wasn't there and I thought she was messing with me. She is nt taking my calls. somebody give me a tip what 2 do
2006-10-22 05:49:56 · 28 answers · asked by tender-boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her alone.
2006-10-22 05:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop the attention NOW. before its too late!
alright, you're in luck, i'm feeling helpful at the moment:
1. obsessive behavior will leave you burned
if you pull the insecurity act, the relationship is toast. girls thrive on irrational behavior, it increases their stock, makes them feel overvalued and undersatisfied (with you)
2. this is a textbook trap, this whole sister, text message, bluhbluhbluh - if i told you to eat a piece of rotting meat, would you? identify the rotting meat. in this case, its your suspicion. What kind of convo do you think goes on between your girlfriend and her protective sister when you start blowing up her cell phone acting like you cant go on in life -- she's thinking "psy-cho"
3. take control - this is the best part, and it will work. stop calling, stop texting - TRUST ME. Her self-esteem needs to return to managable level
look, thus far, you got a little worried, no big deal.
she will call you, and start to question her own role ONLY when she wonders why you're not calling her.
Apologies should be used no more than once or twice annually in any respectable relationship. Sorry over and over sounds like, "honey please you own me, i cherish you, and its okay if you want to walk all over me because i'm here for you" - sounds repulsive huh? well it is damnit.
good luck (take my advice and you wont need it)
2006-10-22 05:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mate forget about your girl move on...one day i was going to see a girl i used to talk to she asked me to go to a party with so i make my way to the city she lives when i get there i tried to call her but noone did answer the phone i even text her but she did not get back to me at that time i felt like maybe there is some thing wrong after couple of hours i rang her and her friend answered the phone telling me that K she is in the hospital stupid me i didn't asked what hospital was she in...I decided to go back home then guess what one of her friend told me that she wasn't in the hospital she was with another manand she went to the party with that guy since then me a K don't really talk like we used to so you should be careful
2006-10-22 06:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need someone to tell you what to do. The GIRL in question has already told you !
If I carried on giving you the advice I have in mind you would be offended and I am really trying to be nice.
She does not want you around so give it up and take the experience as a lesson for the future.
2006-10-22 06:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Whistler R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to sound harsh but I really think that she is no longer interested.
She doesn't have the courage to tell you though and I feel you deserve this. It won't make the breakup of a relationship any easier but at least it helps you stop puzzling over why she is acting like this.
She is not worthy. You are better off without her.
2006-10-22 06:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sally J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Learn to spell and construct sentences.
2) Leave the poor girl alone. Im sick of you just from this question.
3) Buy some porn. Youre gonna need it.
2006-10-22 05:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do I'm afraid, your jealous may have driven her away.
Send her one last text, saying you are sorry for how you behaved, and that you understand she needs time and space. Tell her you'll be waiting if she wants to get back in touch.
And give her space - no more texts or calls.
2006-10-22 05:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Alexa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a cruel situation she has not the heart to tell you that its over but you should not involve anyone else or pester them in any way I think you should learn by this experience and move on
2006-10-22 06:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by hot lips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think that you over reacted, after her sister told you she was at work, what right did you have to call her there? your just a boyfriend, your not her father.she does not need to report to you,it sounds to me that you are insecure and controlling. if i were her I'm sorry i would dump you. don't be surprised when she does it. you blew it!! and why did you accuse her of having her sister lie.you were way out of line on all of this.
2006-10-22 06:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing what you did you pointed out that you do not trust her. by the sound of it my 3 kids do not need as much attention as you. any way flower and chocolates and say sorry it will not happen a gain.
2006-10-22 06:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait about a week without sending messages, and see if she tries to contact you. If she doesn't, it's over and she has dumped you. Be strong, man.
2006-10-22 05:52:56 · answer #11 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋