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One day I asked my boyfriend who looks better out of me and this girl he is friends with at work. His responds was for a woman who has a child she looks better then you. He was like look at you I don't know how you would look if you would have a child. I don't know what he talking about I am 5'1 and 113 lbs I am not fat. He never really explain it to me. I can't get it out of my head that he told me something like that.

2006-10-22 05:43:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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My question to you is.....why are you still thinking about him? If he is THAT mean and cruel, the last thing he would have seen of me is my back.....as I was runnning away from him. You don't need a person in your life that thinks that lowly of you. Move on!!

2006-10-22 05:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0 0

What incentive jerk.. he needs to be let go and let him see who really looks better than. I mean that is very rude. I mean if it is bothering u that much and u don't want to lose him then sit him down one night or day and tell him what u felt when he said that and then ask him what he would feel like if u had answered the same way. If u don't want to do it that way, then when u are watching tv and u see a hot guy then make a comment like damn he is hot he has a great body and see what ur mans reaction is and keep doing it and when he gets mad then tell now u know how i felt.

2006-10-22 05:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0 0

Women ask questions they don't want to know the answer to. Your boyfriend is not obligated to lie in order to save your fragile self-esteem. You should be honored that your boyfriend is honest, because every woman wants an honest man. His concern is that if you had a baby you would become a cow, which I'm glad someone cares, because most women are content to become fat slobs after pregnancy and expect a man to still tell them they're gorgeous. If aren't ready for truth don't ask, be content in your belief that you are the only one who sparks your boyfriends interest.

2006-10-22 05:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 0 0

That is rude of him. If it was a celebrity and he said it in a laughing manner, it would be understood as not an insult, but comparing a woman he works with is just harsh. Perhaps you should read into the relationship more and see whether his heart is in it. Prepare yourself for the possiblity of a separation. If it becomes serious, ask him whether he really means it or if he's just joking.

2006-10-22 05:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by bansri47 4 · 0 0

This is a perfect case of "If you don't want to face the answer, don't ask the question." You should always be prepared for both good and bad answers when you ask a question. Did you want him to lie? Maybe she is pretty enough to be a model. He didn't say he liked her better than you, just that she looked better.

2006-10-22 05:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0 0

Beauty is something that is often misinterpreted as a viable aspect of a relationship. Your boyfriend is concieted and needs a lesson in being a gentleman. Motherhood brings out beauty at times. Maybe he wants to have a child w/you..or maybe he wants his mommy.

2006-10-22 05:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 0 0

Pay no attention to what your boyfriend said, the only opinon that really counts is your own opinon of yourself. Watch out what you ask for , you may not like the answer. So there for don't ask such question, don't set yourself up for disappoinment. be kind to yourself, love yourself, and when you do this, the opiono of others won't matter. Happy Trails to you

2006-10-22 05:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by bonnie f 3 · 0 0

well, to his defense, you did ask him and if you weren't ready to hear the truth, you shouldn't have asked. however, your boyfriend sounds like a real ******. do you plan on staying with this guy for the rest of your life? i would seriously think about it. he obviously has issues with what women look like after they have have children. not the fact of how much they went through to have that child. i would get rid of him. he seems shallow and i have a feeling that is just the tip of the iceberg with his problems.

2006-10-22 05:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0 0

Blame yourself for asking a ridiculous question like that!!!

Typical girl - ask a question, get an honest answer and then get a fit of the sulks!

If you can't cope with the answer, don't ask the question.

2006-10-22 05:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by steven b 4 · 0 0

Relax!! He comapred an apple to an orange, whic his impossible to do. You don't have a child, so you can't look like her. It's like comparing a new Mustang to a nwe Mustang with a dent. You don't have the dent. You're still in so don't sweat it.

2006-10-22 05:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0 0

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