i think i could be suicidal?!?

Question

im a mid teenager now and my life sucks, i have like no real friends, none of my dreams could come true anymore, i'm too old now, and what am i supposed to do, just live the rest of my life doing something i hate, feeling like i was never worth anything? and then when i die just think of how good of a sucky life i had? i asked my parents if i could go on a study tour to spain for a year, and they screamed no! that was my last dream that i could have, now what? i need some help to move on and some help to keep me beleiving that some dreams i have could still come true

Answer 1

Hey, you could go to college and get good grades, and then be eligible to study in another country of your choosing while in college. Don't despair! I hope you will open up to more dreams so you don't have just the one, okay?

Answer 2

In the year 10, a famous Roman engineer said that everything that could be invented had been.

So c'mon, don't you think you are "killing yourself" with too high expectations of life? But I bet you are much less sucessful than your potential.

Whats funny is that, as you get older, life is actually much more sukk but you end up enjoying it 10 times more.

Whoever pulled this stupid youth culture on everyone is an a ss. The only thing good about being young is having a fresh body.
I feel sorry for you, but if you don't mess up life worse by worrying, you will grow out of it.

You are pouting over the spain thing. Don't let anyone manipulate you, and don't manipulate others.
HOW COULD YOU LIVE IN SPAIN, if you aren't mature enough to deal with your problems as an adult?

Quit dreaming and start doing. Seriously. You are only going to make yourself more miserable than you are already. You really don't know how good you have it. Are you getting enough sleep? Eating right? Getting away from your family so that you appreciate them when you are around? Do you have a job? You should be putting in 15-20 hrs per week at something. How are your grades? If they are 4.0 then can you get into more advanced classes?

Your complaint sounds like one from a spoiled child who has eaten too much sugar, needs a nap and is brawling with his mommy and daddy. Where is your dignity? Strive to be a respectable, independent adult. Everything will follow.

Answer 3

Too old for dreams? No Way! My life was like your too when I was young like you. My life has really turned around, I am so happy to have the life that I do, all it takes is time and things will get better and I am serious about that. If your parents said no to study in Spain ? if you still want to do this in a few years go for it then. Life can change in so many ways and fast too. Just sit back and enjoy the ride! I am way more happier now than I ever was when I was a teen, being a teen is difficult it don't last long so don't worry so much. Trust me! No one is ever too old to have dreams.

Answer 4

If you're only in your mid teens, you have plenty of time to accomplish your dreams and make friends. You could easily study in Spain for a semester or a year in college. Dreams aren't usually accomplished in your teenage years. Work hard and then you can get them when you are older.
I don't think you are suicidal though. If you seriously are thinking of suicide, talk to your parents or a counselor at school ASAP. It might just be teenage angst. Pretty much everyone goes through it.

Answer 5

First, everybody's life sucks in their teen years. I don't care how put together all your peers seem, they are not, trust me. I am 50+ and still remember when I was in my teens and feeling the exact way you do. I made it through those difficult times and so will you. You have to keep telling yourself "I will get through this, its only temporary" over and over. I felt worthless, hopeless, suicidal, all of that! I began to set goals for myself, I had about 12 things I wanted to accomplish before "I got old." I learned that you have to have a plan B in case some of those goals don't work out. Not all of them will. You constantly have to reevaluate your goals, because for several years to come YOU will be changing. What seems important to you now, won't seem as big of a deal 2 years or 10 years from now. When you set long term goals written in stone, you are setting yourself up for failure because they may not be attainable. Opt for short term goals now in addition to your life goals. Daily ones or weekly, something that is reachable. You WILL achieve these goals and your outlook on life will dramatically change because you achieved your goal and your self-esteem will go off the chart (upward of course). Always remember BABY STEPS lead to a successful and fulfilled life. If you are thinking of suicide, call a HELP LINE. You can be anonymous and will get some good advice. People gravitate toward successful and positive people. Do these things and I promise you will become that and have lots of friends. You are in charge of your destiny. Just chill for now and make the plans above then work toward them. So, if you don't go to Spain! Did you stop to think that maybe there is a reason for you not to go. Listen to that inner voice (intiution), that trip was not right for you. Bigger and better things are coming. At 50+ I am still setting goals AND achieving them and chillin'.

Answer 6

Dude, make your own dreams. get a solid education, get out on your own and make a living. Then you can do whatever you want without any interference. It is all based on getting the right job. Fast food, or retail is a good start, just don't get locked in to it. You say you have no friends. That could work to your advantage. You don't have peers dragging you out and making you spend your money. SAVE SAVE SAVE. Also consider talking to a minister or even a therapist if your parents will pay for it.

Answer 7

I know your parents are your parents and you love them and all, but if you over 16, maybe you should try to work on trying to makes your dreams happen without your parents. There are ways to do it if thats what you REALLY want out of life. Your getting older now, and it's up to you to find a way to make things happen for you. Your parents aren't going to be able to live your life for you. As for the suicidal part, I think you should go and talk to someone who might be able to help you better then a bunch of folks on the internet. Your life is worth more then giving up on it so early in life. You haven't even really began to live. Talk to someone one before you do something so drastic. Death is too final. Think about things.

Answer 8

Get your head out of your butt and work toward making your dreams come true... When you're 18, you can do whatever you want to do, you don't need their permission to get either a passport or a plane ticket.

Get a job that get's your mind off your pity party and work toward a goal. When you have enough money saved (having worked for it yourself) you can take off to Spain and live and be and do whatever you like!

roadblocks are the greatest excuse we can create to hide the fact that we would just rather not admit to the fact that we are scared to death of becomming responsable for our own lives.

Quit blaming your parents and step up into your own life being responsable and accountable to and for yourself! The only way to kill fear... is to face fear!

Answer 9

I wish i had a crystal ball so i could see into your future, but all of life is about changes.Every day brings more,try asking your parents about Spain again when you turn 18, give them a break, having kids is hard. You never stop worring about them, even when they grow up and leave home. never stop dreaming for then your life will be truly over, keep reaching for them, you'll get to all of them, I promise!!!!

Answer 10

DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE. I repeat DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE. By commiting suicide you are taking your own life and preventing the world from seeing how good you could be. You will get new dreams. Everybody had dreams. As for making friends, i guess you could talk to people in your table and try to be friends with them. Ask them if they will be friends with you. The worst that could happen is that they do not want to be friends with you and that will result to being sent back to where you are right now. Do not commit suicide. You have nothing to lose but all to gain. Life will get better. Talk to your parents. Maybe they could help you get some friends. DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE.