Throughout the summer I have quite a few pool parties,and invite as many as 70 people over.
Last month I invited my neighbor over(I have the hots for her),and overheard her telling a friend "I like tall men,but not too tall..."
Now,I'm 6'6",athletic,not "lanky" or skinny.
My question is:Should I confront her and ask her what is too tall,or should I let the chips fall as they may?
SERIOUS answers only PLEASE!
2006-10-22 05:09:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's 5'8"-5'10"
2006-10-22 05:14:21 · update #1
let the chips fall....if she's really feeling you, then she'll feel a connection with you no matter how tall you are.
2006-10-22 05:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Allansc, Listen Allan if you really feel the way you do then when you are with her some time just ask her. Not in the beginning of the outting but more towards the end. This way she has been with you for awhile and she is comfortable. Say something like ,,,,,,, " so i overheard you say that you liked tall gents at my last party." Give a little, cute, smirk and continue with ,,,,,,, " Now does that include me or am i too tall?" And it is a simple phrase and more importantly it is not pushy. And it gives her a chance to tell you what she thinks. Good Luck Allan.
2006-10-22 05:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 13:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't confront her on it at all. It wasn't stated to you directly. We all have preferences for men but ironicially many of us end up with men that are totally opposite in physical appearance than we would normally be attracted to. This is probably because physical appearance is not everything. Why don't you just ask her out for an evening and let the chips fall where they may. Before you do it, ensure that if you are rejected, it wouldn't harm the current neighbourly relationship that you have with her. Good luck!
2006-10-22 05:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by L M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it's info you're looking for, so go ahead and ask, how else are you going to find out. Either way the chips will fall, either slowly chipped, or quickly. The end result is the same. Good luck!
2006-10-22 05:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't confront her about it. Chances are if you are fun to be with, attractive, and whatever else she wants in a man, she won't even notice how tall you are. Besides, she may have only meant the beanpole skinny guys--which you are not. Your athletic build likely balances your height out nicely--well proportioned.
2006-10-22 05:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asking her what too tall is, would just be cheesy, let it play out. If she is interested she will let you know. But show her that you are interested too. Girls like to be persued just do it subltley, and if she is intersted, like you said the chips will fall into place. Good luck :)
2006-10-22 05:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, people's preferences aren't set in stone. If you like her, ask her out. She can only say yes or no, and it shouldn't matter about your height. If she's that worried about your being too tall, look elsewhere, really. Go for it!
2006-10-23 03:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will probably offend her if you confront her but..if you let the wind carry you and not do anything she may go on to somebody else and you may miss the chance to date her. That is my opinion I have same feeling for a boy and he is weird believe me!! But I confronted him to see if he liked me and he said "yes" but the next everyone in the school heard about it and i got sent to the office for affection in public so I guess i will never do that in years. I learned my lesson.
2006-10-22 05:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by Boston_Bull_Lover2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Test the waters, and ask her what her ideal man would be like. Now ask her if she would possibly consider going out with you to some place neutral, like the mall; or somewhere she likes to go. If that goes well, then ask her out. This way your treading boundaries carefully without losing a valuable friend.
2006-10-22 05:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by conniesmiles 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋