2006-10-22 05:03:37 · 44 answers · asked by melissa g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The Smart thing,, Call the Police and tell your BF,
2006-10-22 05:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with your boyfriend and tell him as this guy who raped you is no bestmate, when you have told him please go to the police as this guy is scum and deserves all he gets, be strong love, dont let this pervert get away with it, take care and good luck love
2006-10-22 05:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by simonbeever2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Congrats to you for asking for help. Now, be strong--you can get through this! Ok, so you have to go to the police. You chould tell your boyfriend too, but if it's his best friend it might be hard for him to believe it or understand it. Don't let that discourage you. You should also go to either someone in your family (mom, aunt, brother/sister, etc) or a close, dear friend of yours so that you have someone on your side with you from the beginning. This is going to be hard but you can do it. Also, there are annoymous support groups if you need someone else to reach out to.
2006-10-22 05:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by acdshottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a serious question!? - If so, am very sorry to hear what has happened to you, but you must contact the police immediately, get the help and support you need and to stop him taking advantage of another woman. Then speak to your boyfriend about it, who should show sympathy and compassion for you. Be brave, be strong and you can and will get through this. Good luck. x
2006-10-22 06:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend the police and your parents or friends/family...you will need a lot of support...tell your boyfriend for sure though...he needs to know that this has happened and what kind of a 'best friend' he really has...definitely get some help for yourself though too,its a difficult thing to deal with on your own...if you need a chat feel free to mail me...good luck and don't let the a**hole get away with that...more women are raped by people they know than anyone else...dont become another sad statistic..make him accountable for what he has done ;0)
2006-10-22 05:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so so sorry that you had to go through this.
You need to have someone crack skulls here. This is f'n unacceptable . . . then call the police on this miscreant. A person like this is a cockroach and needs to be punished by both the street and by the law.
Again, I'm sorry this happened to you. You should also seek out counseling for your own health.
Good luck.
2006-10-22 05:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your boyfriend. This situation happened to me a long time ago, as well. Talk to your boyfriend. If he truly loves you, he will listen, and comfort you.
If he gets mad, and is not supportive, then he isn't good for you...neither of them are. Be strong, and true to yourself. You should never hide the fact that you were raped. You have to talk to someone...if not, this could really hurt you later from being an emotionally healthy person.
2006-10-22 05:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he didn't rape u, what have u gone to do in his house? he made love to u cause u want it at that moment. raping is when he didn't tell u anything, grab u from behind, tear ur cloth and forced his way in and not in his house. every man that invites a girl to there house wants to start something with her, unless u guys are very good friends. but if u love ur bf u will not think of going to his mate or allowing his mate to be to u when ur bf is not there.
2006-10-22 05:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by diji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To incogru- The police are sympathetic are they, all of them are you sure, you know this for a fact do you. Sometimes they're the worst people you can go to. Moron.
In answer to this, tell your boyfriend, he needs to know what a creep his friend is. Get counselling and learn to deal with it. Whether you go to the police is up to you and nobody else, but i wouldn't.
2006-10-25 11:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Georgie's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know this you cannot live with this, you have to tell someone...not only that you have to be absolutely clear about what happened, because rape is a very serious allegation....get some help on this matter, good luck.
2006-10-22 05:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a joke its in very sick taste.
If its true then talk to someone to decide what you want to do. Have you got a mother or girl friend you can confide in? Failing that phone crime stoppers for number of rape victims advice lines.
2006-10-22 05:08:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋