girls - can u explain this to me?

Question

k, i know this girl that said that gave me her phone number without me asking 4 it... later i tried to give her a flower in public and she said she couldn't accept it... (duuh, no wonder y). i sent her text messages that got more and more to the point... and then she sent me a text that is nothing between us and that she only considers me a brother (christian). we met at the church and we shook hands and she said she's glad "the problem is solved" and i said that i'm glad too. still, when she talks to me... she gets very close (into the interpersonal space) and smiles and that's quite intimidating cuz she's beautifull (and i'm kinda shy). i wonder if she's playing games on me or if she's just too stupid to realize that's not a good think to do when ur not interested in someone. she always appologizes for not answering one of my text messages (i wonder y) claiming she was out of credit, it was late or things like that.
i am trying to move on... but she always seem to leave a door open

so the question is... what do u think of this?

Answer 1

She may know that she is good looking and just likes the attention that she gets from you and wants nothing more. Baisically she does it to make her self feel good, which means she is probabley not thinking to much about how her flirting is affecting you. She will most likley not be the last girl that does this to you. My best advice is move on, she is not worth you feeling down about.

Answer 2

Whether you like her or not, you need to create space. Try to just move on and stop thinking about her. I know it is hard if she is really hot and likes you as a friend, but giving her a flower was a big mistake. She sees no challenge in you, you have already tipped your hand. Don't be mean, don't be rude, stay a gentlemen but don't give her any attention. Whatever you do, stop telling her how you feel and don't be one of her 'girlfriends'. Be a man and if she doesn't see you as a boyfriend then move on. She will either chase you or she won't, but you can't make her like you like you want.
She is leaving the door open because she knows you will give the the attention she needs.

Answer 3

She's not playing games, first off all. It's her M.O. that she gets close and the like. Second, I don't think she can be any more clear that she merely likes you as a friend. Do not press this issue. She's not into you as much as you are into her.

Move on, meet some other women. Right girl, wrong time

Answer 4

Get away from her now!!!!!! Yes, she is playing games with you. She never actually talked to you about the whole situation in a mature and productive way. Why are you hanging around with her and texting her? What are YOU getting out of this relationship? Just seems like you're getting a huge headache and she's making you uncomfortable. Life can be way more funner without these types of people in it.

Answer 5

She's not playing games, first off all. It's her M.O. that she gets close and the like. Second, I don't think she can be any more clear that she merely likes you as a friend. Do not press this issue. She's not into you as much as you are into her.

Move on, meet some other women. Right girl, wrong time.

Answer 6

It sounds like this one loves to have many admirers and keeps them all at a bit of a distance until she needs one of them. She is very insecure and has no intention of being close to you. Don't fall in love with her. Thats why she picks guys that are shy and introverted. She wants to make sure you'll always be there to make her feel like a desired godess that everyone wants. Its a game. She's good at it. Let it go. You deserve someone that is really into YOU!! GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

Sounds to me like she is kinda playing you. She is keeping you at arms length in case something happens with a different guy or something. It also sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. I would steer clear of her until she knows what she wants. She sounds like she wants you and she seems to be sending all the correct messages that she wants you but doesn't really want you.

I would steer clear or tell her you are not comfortable with her being the way she is being if she doesn't want to be more than friends.


Good Luck

Answer 8

She doesn't know what she wants or she's playing a game. Call her bluff. Put your hand right between her boobs and push her back slowly while saying, "You either like me like that or you don't. Stop playing games." Or reach out when she gets that close and draw her closer yet. You don't have to be real forceful, but she should have to pull a little to get away. Be careful, though, as far as getting something started with her...she sounds a bit loopy.

Answer 9

My first guess is she is playing you.
Second; she is a flirt by nature and acts this way with everyone
Third; she doesn't know she is flirting with you. This goes hand in hand with point two
Forth; she's playing hard to get and your just giving up. For this to apply, ask yourself how long this has been going on. If it has been more than a month she is NOT playing hard to get.

Answer 10

I'm sorry, but she's just toying with you dude. Some girls like to boost their confidence by leading a guy on, making him drool over them, and then turning him down. In the meantime she'll "complain" to her freinds that she's just so beautiful that you keep calling her. She'll give you just enough rope to hang yourself with by saying things like "I'm out of credit", or "I don't get service in some areas on my cell phone".

Don't buy it. Ditch the girl, find someone else, and move on.