2006-10-22 04:55:34 · 57 answers · asked by melissa g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just make really loud noises and put on that face that most girls have on when they have an orgasm.
2006-10-22 04:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Lots of women fake orgasm simply because they dont know what an orgasm feels like. Maybe you dont know, maybe youre not relaxed, maybe youre not in love. He may not be great at technique for whatever reasons...but try to take a look at the sexual side of your relationship for more than just technique. Look at the foreplay, look at the preparations ahead of time, look at your relationship and look at what happens after having sex with your partner. Is there cuddling or if there's some other ways to learn how to please each other. Just as in anything a person is unfamiliar with or is/had little practice...sex is something you have to be open to learn and explore and it's not the 'whole' of the relationship. You say you love him. Take things slowly...what I mean is, things may not be what you expect at first, but they can only get better with experience and Love.
2006-10-22 05:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to fake an orgasm with a guy you consider rubbish? If you consider him rubbish, how can you love him? If you love a guy you don't respect, why would you want to have sex with him, let alone fake orgasms?
If you get YOURSELF straightened out, let's have a go at that boyfriend issue, shall we?
2006-10-22 05:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him, surely honesty is what should come naturally? why don't you, instead of faking anything, merely guide him: say things like "i'd like it if you could try this for me" instead of saying anything negative. guidance like this can be seen as sexy, as it makes you sound a bit more dominant, which guys like! when he's hitting the right buttons, you wont need to fake an orgasm! you'll be having a real one! and he'll feel good 'cos he listened and got it right, which he'll then do again next time. everyone could be a winner. better to guide and make it good, rather than fake and always have bad sex. see what i'm saying? good luck!
2006-10-22 05:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ollie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of X-rated movies nowadays to be viewed in the privacy of your own bedroom. You can learn from them. But why fake it? If you are not really enjoying the act, your love will fade ultimately. That is cheating and sooner or later he will find out. Try to talk to him what needs to be done for you to enjoy your act to the fullest. If still it doesn't work "try and try again until you succeed". I mean try other boyfriends. So remember, don't cheat.
2006-10-22 05:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you love him you should tell him, not in that way of course. Have a talk with him and tell him the type of things that excite you in bed. I'm sure he would want to know this. Nobody wants to be inadequate in the bedroom. Also, this is not fair to you. Correct the situation so both of you can experience a great sex life.
2006-10-22 05:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying different positions? Some women are more likely to get an orgasm on top rather than the missionary position.
2006-10-22 05:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why fake? Life comes with some obstacles. Relationships have their UPS and down's. If you truly love him then sit him down and explain to him what you need and maybe even show him. It would make things a lot easier.
2006-10-22 05:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by Vernee B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's such rubbish why the hell do you want to pretend he isn't? Make him learn how not to be rubbish and then you won't need to fake, which is a pretty disgusting betrayal anyhow.
2006-10-22 04:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by artleyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man loves you enough he will be understanding to this problem. your not bye far the only one out there this happens too. Let him know its not his fault, You just have a high tolerant level and you need a little more touching in certain areas. Its fun to explore each other anyways ......
2006-10-22 05:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by kelliejo0875 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't ever plan to discuss this with him, then are you going to continue this relationship for the long term? You don't really see that working, do you? Looks to me like you have two choices! Either tell him what it takes to please you, which CAN be done without damage to his ego, or break it off now! Good luck!
2006-10-22 05:00:32 · answer #11 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋