So, this girl im "seeing" ... we went out saturday with my best friend... and while at this resturant in NYC (Parea) ... I sit next to friends girl and he sits next to mine. Now, i dont want to seem over bearing so to show it doesnt get me mad nor does it bother me, i take a picture of them two and they take a picture of me and my friends girl...later on in the evening we go to this night club in West Chelsea. Many pictures were taken with my girl and I... but for some reason beyond me, she's posted the picture of my friend and her on her MySpace.... Not only did this get me furious but there are no pictures of me...Now im furious...so, without being drastic and calling her and yelling...I just simply deleted her from my friends list... Put on my marital Status that Im single, and im now going to disconnect my phone and watch Almost Famous, Good Will Hunting and Stand By Me.... My top 3 favorite movies.... I know im acting like a "chick" but i feel this is better then stupid bantering
2006-10-22 04:51:05 · 18 answers · asked by Stevenson J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like your approach... good job....
:)
I personally think you chose an awesome way of expressing your anger... I would have done something like that... after all, why bother with all the drama for someone you are just "seeing". Asking her about it will only end up in a fight over her half-hearted excuses...
In my opinion, her posting a picture of your bestfriend (and no pictures of you) was a big signal as to where her feelings are heading presently... If she does manage to get into contact with you somehow, don't be a jerk to her, just say, "Sorry, it just wasn't going to work between us." and leave it at that.
I am sure there are other woman out there who would love to be with you, and not your best friend... and now that you are "single", they'll be contacting you soon...
Enjoy your movies...
Best Wishes...
T.
2006-10-22 04:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Theophania 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you know without asking it is drastic but if its how you really feel you should talk to her..if you get that upset you obviously have real feelings..you are doing the right thing by maybe hanging the phone off the hook and watching movies and calming down but deleting her..and changing your status you are pushing into your friends arms..it could be something so simple as the pic with your friend she thought she looked skinnier,or her makeup wasn't smudged..we girls are very particular about pictures and especially ones we post on the web..so be mature and talk to her when you calm down..this is probably a big misunderstanding and if not she doesn't deserve you ..
2006-10-22 05:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....
I think before you react in any fashion you should call and talk to her, talk about other things first and then bring up in passing about the pictures and see how she responds. There could be a lot of reasonable reasons as to why this happened. If you dont like her answer, dont be an ***, just walk away from the situation, distance yourself, seem disinterested when she approaches you and move on. If the girl is more special than this then suck it up, dont say a damn thing and just wait, be patient, see how things work out.
Good luck
srg
2006-10-22 04:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by leseulun 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to talk her about this be fore you go and make a big deal out of it. She might have done it cuz she didn't have any good pics of the two of you. YOU REALLY NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HER ABOUT IT, that is the only way you are going to know what is truely happening and you are not acting like a chic you are doing what you think is best at the moment. Take a day or two to clam down and chill out and then from there you NEED to sit down and talk about it. You never know there might be a good reason for all of this. She might have some really good reason for this.
Good Luck!
2006-10-22 04:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there, buddy.
If your relationship w/ her is a serious one (tho it doesn't sound like it), u owe her an explanation of everything. That is, if u want it to work out or if she's calling u & asking you what's up.
Otherwise, you did the right thing. Hey, add "High Fidelity" to yer movies list. Best break up movie of all time. John Cusack rules!
2006-10-22 04:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah you arent acting like a chick but you are being passive aggressive. Even if you dont want to argue with this girl tell her off it will make you feel a little better and let her know shes being a skank LOL=)
2006-10-22 04:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by raechelblueeyes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just liked how she looked in that picture better than the ones with you in it. Girls are like that - they won't put up pictures if they think they don't look really good in them. Just ask her and stop freaking out, or this relationship will be over.
2006-10-22 05:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by aimeelopez 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From a girl's point of view,i dont think it's too drastic, but it is a little big. you need to talk to her tell her it bugs you real bad and if you dont like the answer she gives then go on and be your single self!
2006-10-22 04:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by MB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are getting upset over nothing. It's just a picture, it's not like you caught her cheating or something.
2006-10-22 04:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh for God's sake.. dude i have heard of weird ways to dump but never by Myspace!!
2006-10-22 04:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋