How long would you leave it until you told a new love interest?
It would effect the relationship but nothing that would make them finish with you.
2006-10-22 04:50:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get things out at the start, saves a lot of heartache later on. Why anyway what have you done???
2006-10-22 04:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the secret, depends on the person. How can you be so sure that it won't make them finish it if you can't decide to tell them?
Try telling bigger and bigger secrets until you get to this uber juicy one, they should be either prepared for it or bored rigid by the time you spit it out....
2006-10-22 11:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by garfet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the past in the past. If your crystal ball is wrong and you lose your current relationship because of something that happened in the past you lose for nothing. Everybody has skeletons in their closet, leave them there.
2006-10-22 12:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have kept mine secret, from the wife for over 20 years
2006-10-22 12:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it something that they need to know? Everyone has a past, everyone has at least on skeleton in their closet............it's strictly up to you when and if you want someone digging around in there. But if it's not going to make them leave you, come clean if it's eating at you...........she has skeletons of her own, I'm sure. Good luck
2006-10-22 11:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to keep a secret is to tell nobody.
2006-10-22 11:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until I knew the relationship was actually going somewhere. I would tell him when we started to talk about getting married.
2006-10-22 11:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never...unless you are self destructive. i do and i would NEVER say a word...what would the purpose be? only to ease your selfish mind...and hurt the one you "love"...be a man and leave the past in the past......and don't do it again.
2006-10-22 11:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by canada grl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
..until she would wanna know allllll about it!
btw you gotta love those advertising trolls that used to write the same thing over+over again.. theyre getting involved too!!
2006-10-22 11:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never tell the secret, that's why it's a secret
2006-10-22 11:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Forestvinnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋