It sounds cruel, but the guy deserves it. More ideas please!
2006-10-22 04:41:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you must be sure the man likes you. You can't make a man jealous if he's not interested in you in some way. You must also try not to make it obvious you're trying to manipulate him. If he realizes what you are doing, he may ignore you.
The next step is to find someone to be overly flirtatious with in front of the guy you want to make jealous. You know how to flirt with a guy, holding eye contact, smiling, feeling his arm muscles, touching his shoulders, laughing at his jokes, whispering into his ear, being near him. There are a hundred ways, use them and make a show of it but don't be too obvious.
Make sure the one you're flirting with knows what's going on or he may become angry with you when he finds out he is being used as a pawn.
Be careful! The whole point of making someone jealous is
a) to get them to notice you and like you
b) get back with them
c) to feel superior after rejection
You say you want to do it for revenge, but sometimes we have to question our own motives.
Maybe you should look within yourself and find out why you need to get revenge. It's almost like subconsciously admitting that you need this guy's attention and you like him. Whatever you choose, I wish you the best.
2006-10-22 06:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by ne0aes0p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to make him jealous. You just need to forget him and ignore him the fact that you can do this will be enough to accomplish what you want. Trying to make someone jealous just shows that you still have interest and will only add to the problems. Ignore him or kill him with kindness. Mst guys like to upset girls as a way of flirting, i know it don't make since, just be nice and smile and he will go crazy trying to figure out why you dont care.
2006-10-22 04:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Guitarpix 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the best ways to make him jealous is to back away from the relationship. Don't call him first, let him call you. Don't drop things to go out with him, put him off because you have other plans. Make him think you are losing interest and he will try harder to get you. He will wonder why you are backing away and put more effort into the relationship.
2006-10-22 04:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has to really like you to get jealous, but sleeping with his best friend is a good start? If he doesn't get jealous it'll at least piss him off. If you are not the flousy type...I'd say flirt with someone else.
2006-10-22 04:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Future Mrs. Beasley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly Don't do it.
Every m,inute your working on this you will be making yourself miserable. It is best to learn and move on. If he doesn't get jealious you will just get angrier and if he does you have sunk down to his level . A relationship on vengeance is not worth having. Find it within you to be bigger than this.
2006-10-22 04:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by cosmiccastaway 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, just get over the guy. If you were over the guy, you wouldn't be plotting revenge. the best revenge is living well and moving on. Let karma take care of it.
2006-10-22 04:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when your mates are tlking to him get them to talk about how great your sex was with your ex's and the things u did to them but dont do to him, change your best mates number to a guys name in your phone book and get her to call you all the time and answer and sound flirty on the phone, when your chating to him over msn, when he asks what your doing, jst say "chatting to a few ex's" or "tlkin to this bloke i met satarday in town" etc. go out without him and take photos of you and some other blokes, get blokes photos on ur phone, add flirty texts to your inbox.
2006-10-22 04:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find some guy that is all over you and let the ex see it. Let him see this new guy grab your backside or totally make you laugh. If he sees that you are happier with someone else, or someother guy is getting all your love and affection, that will do it.
2006-10-22 04:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is ur ex, pretend that, a guy just had u and tell him when talking to u, that u r sorry it happened, look at his reaction. unless he is just a friend, then get u bf to come along when u know he will be around. if not both, get ur handsome brother to come with u when he is around and pretend he is ur bf. those ways he is already in trouble if he loves u.
2006-10-22 04:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by diji 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Completely ignore him, if he talks to you answer in one word sentences, do not ask questions that would make him feel you're interested. IF you feel comfortable enough talking to him, ask him if he knows anything about a guy that he absolutely HATES. Ask him if he thinks he's single, etc.
Good luck!
2006-10-22 04:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋