Husband moved in 5 kids from prior marriage: I was lied 2 on every level about kids, probably used due 2 my American citizenship 2 bring them 2 the USA as their American sponsor…blah blah blah. Still here b/c I've no family/friends all far away/can't work b/c ill. Kids distain/laugh at Americans/our culture, never wash their hands & many, many other distasteful traits/habits. I’m not into organized religion. They preach constantly 2 me: "Islam is the best religion in the world”. The 22 yr old/18 yr old R most judgmental d!cks I’ve EVER MET. If they see an American smoke/have a beer they just shake their heads judgmentally/mutter about infidels. They say that it is “wrong to” watch hubby/wife brief kiss in a PG movie! YET they ordered $140 HARDCORE PORN on cable when home alone! They say it's "immoral" to play lotto/gamble but they R stealing game pieces from their job (I get them these 1st jobs), trying 2 win lotto style game! They/their father won't see the hypocrisy. How 2 deal pls?
2006-10-22 04:23:49 · 8 answers · asked by zoe_southernusa 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Husband is also Muslim but was never the type to try and shove it down another's throat. This BS is mostly coming from his offspring (but he does seem to support it) who have never been outside of their one third-world village and couldn't even fry and egg until I tought them how several months ago. IOWs what about the humility of admitting to know little about life instead of judging others who are much older than you...and...you get the picture of where I'm coming from right? LOL
2006-10-22 04:26:57 · update #1
smashley asked what do I hope to get her on Yahoo answers...uh...I thought some insite...some input from people who are on the outside and not in the middle of the situation and totally unbiased. You know when people like you say this kind of thing it's discouraging...it's almost like you are saying to me "Yes you have no resources, no family, no close friends and no one here will be able to give you any wisdom or insight to go away". That's what your remark seems to be saying and it's a good think I'm not taking it to heart and am therefore letting it go in one ear and out of the other. TUVM
2006-10-22 04:34:01 · update #2
Always Gotta Know is such a sheltered, clueless, moron in denial, that he thinks that my REAL LIFE problem posted here is "fiction" (??!!). Sounds like soft, pampered, sheltered man with issues that probably still lives with his mommy. Probably has a lifetime pescription to Vigrara so I'll just ignore that "answer".
2006-10-22 04:50:11 · update #3
Get away from these people, they are seriously using you big time and they aren't even concerned about you knowing it at all. Get them out of there ASAP! Then go and try to make some friends.
2006-10-22 04:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you write in your face fiction to get reactions, make it much shorter. You made your point about fanatics and I totally agree. Were this a real situation you and all of us know the answer: You divorce and/or kick out the father and write "all religions suck" on your front door. Then go into the witness protection program 'cause those religious nut cases are programmed to kill.
2006-10-22 04:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Islam is not of God, it's of the devil. That is why this same hypocrisy is found in every Muslim nation on earth. It is why they kill 4 million Christians in the Sudan in the name of Allah...yet rape the women, stab pregnant women in the womb, cut off limbs...
Islam is a dead thing to God and the object of the Lord Jesus' wrath. Is it any wonder that it's adherents are complete hypocrites? They are spiritually dead.
2006-10-26 03:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really sounds like a crappy situation, but what are you planning on getting from Yahoo! Answers that will solve your problems?
2006-10-22 04:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not accept what is not yours to accept. This is your home, set the tone and style. They will have to accept or move.
You invited them and welcomed them into your home (and country) its time to set the pace. They are not in charge, you are, despite their actions to the contrary.
As to religion....choose your own and live it. That helps to diffuse any other examples being set.
2006-10-22 04:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to listen to what they preach becuz they are a bunch of hypocrites. my bro's friends is always trying to force rastafarianism on us but we dont pay him no mind. i tell him to follow what he preaches. tell them to get the hell out ur house they 22 and 18 and they should be living on their own
2006-10-22 04:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by asphyxiated_by_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him...he sounds like a loser
2006-10-22 04:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by kissmybum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They won't change, you won't change.
One of you has to leave
2006-10-22 04:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Grundoon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋