I have been separated from my wife for about 12 weeks and my daughter is best friends with my next door neighbours 2 boys. I have always got on really well with her and would consider her to be a good friend. (She has been separated for over 1 year.)
She has been very supportive of my situation and we have recently had some great days out with the kids and I’ve been out a couple of times with her and her friends.
She is gorgeous and as time goes on, my feelings for her are getting stronger and stronger although I’m scared of another relationship so soon as I may be a bit on the rebound.
I don’t want to ruin our friendship and had initially wanted to simply wait and see how things go but she was out with her friends last night and I can’t stop wondering if she was getting it on with some other guy and I’d be devastated if she meets someone and I’d not said anything.
What should I do?
2006-10-22 04:14:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it slowly. Remember you're only just out of a intense relationship. Ask your neughbour out for a drink, on a quiet night so you can talk or on a really noisy social so you can enjoy yourselves without the talk drying up. But make it just you two, no friends or children around. Just take baby steps at this time and good luck to you. Oh and don't get too drunk either!
2006-10-22 04:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by PATRICIA L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't.. That's only because I've dated a neighbor and things didn't work out. So, I was stuck observing everything he did whether I liked it or not. I had to drive by his house for work, school, etc. I knew when he'd have another girlfriend too. He was also my best friend's roommate.
I would suggest a LONG period of getting to know each other. My experience and others around me have not been pleasant in the end (when it comes to dating neighbors)
2006-10-22 04:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no right to wonder "if she is getting it on with some other guy". If she is it's her business not yours. When you two have everything settled
with your previous relationships then ask her for a date. The only way to know if she feels the same about you is to ask. The worst thing she can say is NO.
2006-10-22 04:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by edandsarahmae02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and let her come to you. That's the best way to let he rknow your feeling her. She should be open enough with you to let her feelings out on you and do stuff with you. And once that happens it may be different but a good different. But take one day at a time and dont worry about "another dude" obviously she is interested if she took you out with HER FRIENDS!!! its takes a long time for a girl to do that and be that comfortable.
2006-10-22 04:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont push it, give her lots of compliments and see how she reacts, she might think u r on the rebound or using her for a shoulder to cry on,she knows u r there todays woman will make her move, u sound lovely xo xo
2006-10-22 04:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by sexy babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a terrible subject to be in and that i'm sorry you're interior the direction of it. i think of what i could do is seek advice from Bob. carry close out with him for a jointly as and tell him all the coolest things Sally has ever accomplished for you and tell him that she is so candy and that all and sundry yo ask is one date. tell him that he won't like her now yet she a minimum of merits a great gamble. attempt to talk him into it and tell him he won't sense sorry approximately it! stable success!
2016-11-24 22:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out and see what happens. You both need to file for divorce before you get into a relationship.
2006-10-22 04:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like rebounding. Continue to build your friendship and see what happens
2006-10-22 04:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Rita T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could drop some hints that you like her... but ultimately, you may want to wait until she's divorced. Even though she's separated, until that 'D' ink is dry... there's always that teeny chance she could reconcile w/ hubby.
2006-10-22 04:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, go for it. She could meet someone else. Just be careful, you just got out of a relationship ya know?
2006-10-22 04:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋